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Our first contributor; Roy Pitkin of LaQuinta, California writes:

I am sharing a book entitled "Letters To Pauline" which is an annotated set of letters my father (who at the time was running a drug store in Anthon) wrote to my mother over the three months before they were married in 1921. It mentions many people and places in Anthon. When I put this together two years ago, I gave a number of copies to people in Anthon and had a copy deposited in the library, but I would be happy to share this on your website. Roy Pitkin

Letters To Pauline

PREFACE
Shortly after my mother's death in June 2001, we found among her things some 51 letters my father had written to her over the 3 months before their marriage. Nearly all were in their original envelopes and nearly all the envelopes bore a legible postmarked date; for the half-dozen or so that lacked either the envelope or a clear date, the contents permitted placing each in its proper order.
The letters contained a mixture of plans for the upcoming marriage and news and gossip about friends and acquaintances. There were some romantic allusions-tender, loving, and sensitive but not especially passionate and certainly not erotic. The story told by the letters is incomplete, for it comes from only one side and there was an equal number of letters from the other side. However, except for three letters written in the last week before the wedding, none of Pauline's letters survive. Additionally, the two met frequently during the period. Nevertheless, it is possible from the letters to gain considerable insight into the two and their relationship.
The letters are noteworthy for other reasons. Though handwritten, often hurriedly, they are entirely legible, and in no case was it necessary to guess at any words. Further, the number of misspellings and grammatical and semantic errors is minimal, which is remarkable in view of the writer's limited education. One of the most striking features is that letters were nearly always delivered to the addressee the next day after they were mailed; if sent "Special Delivery" (requiring 10 cents in addition to the 2-cent stamp for first class mail) in the morning, they were usually delivered the same evening. This level of service, inconceivable today, was routine, and there were no ZIP codes, automatic sorting, optical scanning, or other modern postal techniques.
I thank my sisters and my wife for carefully reviewing drafts of this compilation of letters and comments and making a number of suggestions that improved the final product.
Roy M. Pitkin
August 2003

Pauline McBeath Pitkin Roy Pitkin author of the Love Letters To Pauline

PROLOGUE

The Principals

The writer of the letters was born July 1, 1894, in Underwood, Iowa, the seventh and last child of William E. and Mary (Klingensmith) Pitkin, and given the single name of Roy. Later in life, probably during military service, he took the initial S in lieu of a first name, and was occasionally known, formally if not officially, as S. R. Pitkin. However, all of this is not particularly relevant because everyone who knew him at all called him "Pit." His father ran a livery stable and so he grew up with an appreciation for horses, something he never lost. He attended school in Underwood, which at that time extended only to the tenth grade. However, in his last year there was some disciplinary action he felt was unfair, and he dropped out of school at age 16. His parents, who were not educated or especially cultured, raised no objection and may have even supported his decision, for it meant that he could get a job and contribute to the costs of running the household. He did get a job, at the local drugstore. This brought him under the influence of Frank Cash, an influence that turned out to be a defining one.

Baseball was an important part of small town life in the Midwest and it was baseball that exerted a major influence on Pit's career. In 1914 he followed his friend, Niels Nielsen, to Anthon where employment at the McNiff Brothers' Pharmacy had been arranged. However, the real motivation was the opportunity to play with the Anthon semi-professional baseball team. It was like the scene in the movie, "Field of Dreams," in which the young Archie Graham is hitchhiking to Iowa because he has heard that there the towns will "give you a job during the day and you can play baseball on the weekends."

Pit's drugstore experience led quite naturally to interest in pharmacy as a profession. The law at that time required only passing the state licensure examination, without any specific educational stipulation. In 1916, he enrolled in the Highland Park College of Pharmacy, which later either became or was incorporated into Drake University's School of Pharmacy, in Des Moines. He studied there for about 6 months, after which he took and passed the state pharmacy board examination.

After being certified as a registered pharmacist by the Commissioners of Pharmacy for the State of Iowa January 18, 1917, Pit presumably returned to Anthon for a short time. However, by mid-1917, America had entered World War I, and he enlisted in the Navy. He served at Treasure Island in San Francisco Bay, where he attended storekeepers' school, and was scheduled for further education at the Philadelphia College of Pharmacy when the war ended. Offered release from active duty, he chose instead to go to Philadelphia for the additional education. He completed the three month U.S. Naval Hospital Corps Training School on February 13, 1919, and was discharged shortly thereafter.

On returning to Anthon, he found an unusual opportunity at his former employer's. Frank McNiff had died in the war and his mother and brother Jim (who was not a registered pharmacist) wanted to sell the store. They offered Pit generous credit terms and he was able to arrange other loans from the local bank and from his mother. His personal resources were limited to a 20-dollar gold piece he had received at discharge from the Navy. This he promptly traded for change for the cash register, and Pitkin's Drug Store was open for business.

The recipient of the letters was born on January 15, 1900, in Madrid, Iowa, the second of four children of William and Cora (Carter) McBeath. She was given the name of Allie Pauline but she disliked her first name intensely and dropped it at the earliest opportunity. A precocious child, she started school at age 4 and graduated from high school at age 16. She wanted to be a kindergarten teacher and planned to attend Iowa State Teachers College in Cedar Falls. However, shortly before she was to leave for college, a visitor convinced her of the benefits of the Minnesota State Normal School in Mankato, Minnesota. On enrolling there, she found that a student body of 500 girls and two boys. She missed some school during her first year because of illness and underwent surgery (done by her uncle, Dana Carter, in Wyoming) that summer. Additionally, school closed for an extended period because of the influenza epidemic. As a result of these interruptions, she did not complete her 2-year curriculum until the middle of the third year, in early 1919. She was able to find a job teaching first grade in Morris, Minnesota, for the last 3 months of the school term and then she took a position in the Anthon school system for 1919-1920.

In early 1920, her father sold his dental practice to a returning serviceman, William O'Neill, and the McBeaths moved to Vermillion, South Dakota. They purchased a large home at 225 North University Avenue, directly across the street from the campus of the University of South Dakota, where they rented rooms to male students. After completing the year in Anthon, Pauline took a teaching position in Vermillion for the 1920-1921 school year.

Their relationship
Pit came to Anthon in 1914 and Pauline always recalled first seeing the handsome baseball player playing catch on main street. A newly-arrived, 20-year-old man was a major event in a small town like Anthon, especially for a 14-year-old girl, but probably not the other way around. Exactly when their relationship blossomed into a romance cannot be determined. There is a suggestion in one of the 1921 letters that something had existed 3 years earlier. In any case, romance surely came to flower during 1919-1920 when Pauline was teaching in Anthon. At this time Pit was 25 years old, the owner of a business, and had seen at least some of the world while in the Navy. He was therefore ready to settle down. Pauline, however, was not quite sure. She was attracted to Pit, but she worried that there was a great deal of life she had not experienced. She was, after all, only 19 years old, and her college experience had been severely limited with respect to its social aspects. Further, her younger sister was involved in an active social life as a student at the University of South Dakota, and hearing of it fueled Pauline's concerns.

Thus, Pauline's decision to leave Anthon after a year and go to Vermillion was not to simply follow her parents but rather to sample a different and presumably more exciting life. She did indeed find the social activities she sought and she dated several fraternity boys, one of them seriously enough that she later characterized their relationship as a "semi-engagement." Parenthetically, she visited this boy's home over Thanksgiving and while there learned about cranberry ice, which would become a Pitkin family tradition. Meantime, Pit was plugging away at the drugstore in Anthon, writing letters and occasionally seeing her.

The situation came to a head in March 1921, when she wrote him a letter. Exactly what the letter said is unknown, but it certainly provoked a response. The rest of the story is told in the "Letters to Pauline," of which the initial one is that response.

Written 3/16/21 (Monday); no postmark
Dear Pauline,
I have tho't a great deal since I received your last letter, tho't how I should answer it(,) and must admit I am at sea as to just where I stand. I have come to this conclusion(,) that there is no use arguing who was right and who was wrong, for that will never do any good in case the affair is never fixed up, and will only leave us both with a sour taste in our mouth and I don't like to feel that way toward you. In case it is fixed(,) we would perhaps both be sorry for what we had said. I am willing to forgive and forget in either case. Try to think only of our pleasant experiences and forget the unpleasant ones. Life is too short to go through feeling sore at someone over a difference of opinion.
I would like to have a good heart to heart talk with you and I would prefer S. C. to either Vermillion or here, sometime in the near future. You may think I want to meet you to "crab" you but such is not the case. I think it would serve to make us better friends, altho' we may be unable to come to anything definite. If you don't want to do this, then I say forgive and forget it all.
Sincerely,
Pit

This first letter in the series, brief but full of anguish, was written in response to a letter from Pauline. We don't know when the letter was received or exactly what she said in it but it seems clear she regarded the relationship as in jeopardy. Pit almost begs for a meeting, indicating a preference for Sioux City over either Anthon or Vermillion. (A note about geography here: Anthon and Vermillion are about 75 miles apart, with Sioux City in the middle.) He desperately wants to try to repair the relationship, although he does not seem overly optimistic about the prospects. There is no mention of it in any of his letters, but from other sources it is known that, on receiving Pauline's letter, Pit made a trip to Vermillion to consult with her father, William McBeath, and presumably enlist his aid. When this took place in relation to Pit's letter is uncertain.

Written Tuesday morning (3/29/21); postmarked 3/29/21
Dear Pauline,
I arrived home safely last evening by the C'ville route. First I want to state to you that I enjoyed myself immensely in S. C. I am certainly glad that we at last laid aside our unnatural airs and decided to get together and have the good understanding which we now have. Misses asked me how you were and I informed her that you were still "the best old cow in the lot." That is practically all the information I gave anyone. Blair circulated the report that I had gone away to get married but I don't think that excited anyone a great deal(,) for Bill used to pull that every time I went away. Agnes Vogel said she heard I had left town and no one knew where I had gone. She was correct in a measure(,) for Mayme was the only one who know where I would be "for a while at least." I went to the dance last evening after practice. I didn't enjoy myself a great deal. Big crowd but not a good bunch, poor music, and maybe something else entered into it so I couldn't enjoy it all. I saw Helen in Bronson. I think her man was on the train as she was talking to some tall fellow while the train stopped. Excuse brevity as there were four regular traveling men here this a.m.
Lots more love,
Pit

What difference 13 days made! The Sioux City meeting has taken place and in this brief letter Pit is clearly pleased with the "good understanding we now have." "Misses" undoubtedly refers to Mrs. Ellsworth whose rooming and boarding house was home to Pit and other young bachelors in Anthon. She clearly took a great deal of interest in her roomers, or at least in Pit, and he was being coy with her as well as with all the others he identifies as being interested in what he has been up to. "Bill," of course, is Bill O'Neill, his closest friend who will be prominent in other letters as well as in the life of the Pitkin family. "Helen" refers to Helen Rinker, a former girlfriend of Pit's, and "her man" is Wayne Loveland, a college sweetheart who she will shortly marry.

Written Wednesday noon (3/30/21); postmarked 3/30/21
Dearest Pauline,
I received your nice long letter this morning and felt rather sneaky about writing that medium sized letter yesterday. So I'm going to write again today to makeup for the one yesterday.
I have felt like a different man since I came back home and there seems to be more to work for. Things all look rosy to me now where before at times my old morale went down. I saw Garry about the house yesterday and he had just written a carpenter at Manson who used to be here, offering him the house, but would hear from him the last of this week. In case he does want it(,) I think we can figure them quick. I will write to Edna and tell her I want to rent it with a privilege of buying it. I think she would rather have us in there than this fellow with children(,) so she can then write Garry that she had rented it previous to his transaction. Garry wants us in there badly so I don't think there is any doubt but what we can get it. I certainly want to get the place for that is about the best in town and very reasonable rent, only $30 per month. I expected they would ask at least $40 and maybe $50.
I will write a big letter later and answer your statements (beautiful ones, too). I want to send Mrs. McNiff a check for her interest due April 1st so she will feel satisfied financially.
Love,
Pit
Pit seems less restrained in expressing how he feels with the new situation. He is "a different man" and one who has "more to work for." Most of the letter concerns a house he wants to rent (located at 406 Main Street, according to the modern system), indicating clearly that their plans involve marriage. His mention of renting the house with an option to buy is interesting because, in the event, it would be 13 years and five rented houses before they would actually buy a house. He also mentions sending a check for interest to Mrs. McNiff, the woman from whom he purchased the drug store.


Written Thursday afternoon (3/31/21); postmarked 4/1/21)
Dearest Pauline,
I am going to take time out this afternoon to answer your perfectly lovely letters. I am now fully convinced that you are enthused over the idea of coming back to Anthon to live and now that you are(,) I can't help but be. I have always wanted a home of my own and now that it is only 2 or 3 short months (away) I am getting all worked up over the idea. When I found out that (the) house only rented for $30 and I don't think there is any doubt but what we will get it (by some method)(,) I began to dream wonderful dreams.
I have tho't the whole proposition over in my own mind and I can't see any reason why we shouldn't be supremely happy in that place(,) with lovely new furniture and all the trimmings. I too think our break only caused us both to become more enthused over the idea of getting married. I know it has for me, for before I was too satisfied to go along in the same old channel to really enjoy a home such as the one I think ours shall be.
I presume that was a death blow to your mother(,) for I know you are very close to one another, but I think she realizes that you will get married sometime and if she knows that you are married happily(,) it is all for the best. Then again you won't be so far from home and(,) as I have always told you, you are to have your own head in regard to matters such as going home and matters which concern you. That may sound queer but I think it's a compliment(,) for if I hadn't tho't you competent of deciding wisely in such matters, a conference in S. C. would never have been arranged. I have almost forgotten the heart aches of the past 3 months and am thinking only of the good times that are to come.
I was talking to Walter McCluskey the other night and he told me that Anna broke down and cried when she heard we had broken up(,) but he is one of the few I have told that it is all fixed and(,) after talking to him(,) you think what a fool you have been for not getting married before.
I received a nice long letter from a niece of mine in Omaha yesterday. She has been married about four years and she doesn't seem to ever have regretted the deed. She married a fellow who works for the N. P. in Omaha, he has stuck at the job and they have bought a nice little new house to live in and she seems to think it the only life.
I am undecided about coming up this Sunday or next Sunday(,) but in case Sunday is a nice day I may kick the Ford in the ribs and beat it for S. C. and up Sunday night, coming back Monday and on home. If the weather is bad(,) I don't think I shall come until a week from Sunday. In case I do come Sunday, I'll call you Sunday noon.
The reason I answered Mrs. as I did is because she has been dying to find out what took place over in S. C. and I tho't it best to hold it from her for a while. I didn't want to tell her point blank and didn't want to lie to her(,) so (I) just answered her that way. I think you know me well enough not to take offense at anything I say in that matter.
When I got off the train in C'ville I am sure it was this Wayne got off and stood at the end of the platform as I walked down with Doris Gilman. She was there to see Raymond Plato off and she asked me to walk down with her. I will give you my impression of him when I see you(,) so don't draw any pictures until then.
Every time I think of the Martin(,) I can see that crooked neck individual. I laugh every time I think of it(,) but I hate it(,) too. I certainly wouldn't want the story to get out(,) either up there or here(,) for it would be great dope for the anvil chorus.
I really should have written a letter so you would have gotten it tomorrow(,) but (I) tho't I would try and write an extra long one this p.m. As you know I made my debut as an actor last night and make my final appearance this evening. I shall then leave the troupe and begin shifting the scenery for the big home-beginning play in June. I will write again tomorrow so you can have something to read in case I can't come Sunday.
Lots of Love,
Pit
In this rather longer letter, Pit becomes almost effusive in explaining how happy he is and, for the first time, mentions marriage specifically. Mostly, he sees marriage in terms of establishing a home, and therefore obtaining a house is especially important. There is even a hint that a date has been set, or at least a month chosen, when he mentions "the home-beginning play in June." He anticipates some objections from Pauline's mother, but not apparently from her father who has probably been coopted to Pit's side. Again, there is a mention of Mrs. Ellsworth who is trying to learn what is going on between Pit and Pauline, but Pit continues to approach with much care and delicacy. Earlier he had characterized Pauline to her as "the best old cow in the lot" and Pauline's reaction seems to have been curiously mild. The niece to which he refers was Pearl Gatrost Jensen whose husband actually worked for the Union Pacific and not the Northern Pacific.

The most interesting thing in this letter is the allusion to "the Martin" and "that crooked neck individual." Thereby hangs a tale that can only be pieced together from tidbits that came to light much later and even then incompletely. It seems that, in view of the seriousness, the Sioux City meeting was to take place at the Martin Hotel. They booked separate rooms and the bellhop who took Pit to his room inquired as to his desires for any female companionship, an offer he declined. Then they met in Pauline's room, leaving the door open. Shortly after they began their serious discussion, the house detective appeared and told Pauline she would have to leave the hotel. Pit left with her and they went to another hotel where they made similar arrangements, had their discussion, and the rest is history. But Pauline was mortified by the events at the Martin and, even 80 years later, she talked about it with the greatest difficulty.


Written Friday night (4/1/21); postmarked 4/2/21 SPECIAL DELIVERY
Dearest Misses,
While I suppose you are enjoying yourself immensely at the card party(,) I am going to write you a letter. Chase Lister show is here tonite but I have had enough show for one week. The operetta went off in nice shape, cleared about $100 each nite for Ladies Aid and American Legion. Even Mrs. tho't it very good and you know she wouldn't give Mrs. Hawthorne and Mrs. Stillman anything. I had lots of fun out of it but am glad it is over.
I suppose I should have told you first thing that which I expect is first in your mind as well as mine. Well, Garry came down today and I was gone. I then went up and he told me that the house was mine. I told him I would take it as soon as they were ready to move, regardless of whether we were ready for it at the time or not. At $30 I don't want to see that place slip away. We couldn't afford to own it at that rent, which isn't any more than interest on the investment. I think I had better write Edna anyway.
Alice H's man is still in S. C. so I think this is a good chance for me to step down and out. They haven't anything on me, so I can't quit but I don't want to get them on me.
I have lost all desire to step out other than the one direction and if the weather and roads continue good I think you may expect me Sunday night. Anyway(,) I will call you if I come.
Someone pulled rather a crude joke on Waters Bros. this morning. They called them up at Hart's and told them their store was on fire. Ed W. and Bert hit it on the double and got down here and found Jim Conley sweeping the sidewalk off. It is laughable to hear the natives tell of seeing Bert coming down in carpet slippers and his shoes under his arm, one suspender over his shoulder and the other whipping the air(,) but that is not my idea of an April fool joke.
I don't think we shall want for quilts as my mother has a flock of them and I can talk her out of some of them. I think I shall go down home next month as I haven't been home since last fall. While there I think I shall gently break the news to my folks(,) for they might feel hurt if I didn't, and it pays to keep in good with my mother for she is always good for a loan if you are on the right side of her.
I don't know whether I will get a letter from you tomorrow or not as I didn't write you yesterday but I am hoping that you will overlook that fact, as I am sure you know there are times when you just can't get around to write, especially when you are the public servant. I am not going to close this for there may something you want to know in the letter I am going to get tomorrow.

Saturday morning
You proved true to expectations(,) as I received your very good letter this morning. I got up about seven o'clock this morning and feel like a running horse. I don't see how anyone could help but feel fine today.
I certainly don't want to see our enthusiasm wane in the least(,) for I am now decided on the one thing now and my better judgement tells me that to get married in the thing to do. I am going to send this special delivery so you will be sure and get it tomorrow, so you will expect me tomorrow if the weather is good.
Love,
Pit

The most important news in this letter seems to be that the rental of the house is settled. Pit also mentions an operetta involving local talent, including apparently him, and he again refers to Mrs. Ellsworth in deferential terms. The reference to his mother seems a little odd; he thinks he can "talk her out of" some quilts and he observes that keeping "on the right side of her" might be important for a future loan. The next morning he gets up feeling "like a running horse." He is clearly a happy man and he is looking forward to a trip to Vermillion to see Pauline in a day or so.

Written Tuesday morning (4/5/21); postmarked 4/5/21
Dearest girl,
I arrived home safely yesterday afternoon about 4:30, after picking up a tack the other side of Moville(,) so I drove on it and had the tire changed in Moville. I intended writing last night but had to go to (a) council meeting. I have now been a member one year and I drew my pay last night. I have another year to serve and then they may check me out.
I certainly enjoyed my visit up there and (,) altho' the drive both ways was tough, it was well worth the effort. We had a couple of nice talks and I had a nice talk with your mother and I feel satisfied now that you prefer a home with everything that goes with a real home to the chasing around as you have in the last 3 months. That was the only question in my mind. I have always said that I never wanted to get married until I had my run out and I have had my run, (so) now I am ready to get married and I think you are(,) too. I think life will mean a great deal more to both of us when we are settled down in that house. I don't mean that we will just settle down and wait for death to come(,) as we should have upwards of 50 years of the best part of our lives yet to live. There may be some sorrows but I think the happy moments will far offset those sorrows.
I had a long talk last night with Mrs. E. and she said she thought it was the thing to do. She broke down and cried while I was there(,) and said she didn't know where she would get another boy to take my place.
Pauline, you certainly looked and acted awfully good to me yesterday and(,) you know(,) when anything gets that deeply embedded with there is practically no hope for recovery. I didn't get very sleepy until I was at the council meeting(,) and then I began to yawn.
In case your father comes home in 2 weeks(,) I shall wait and come up then but if he doesn't(,) you had better arrange to come down (here) either Friday or a week from Friday. You can let me know the last of this week. You can stay at the house or you have an invitation to stay at Kane's on your next visit to Anthon.
The report was here this morning that C. H. Rinker was about to breathe his last. I don't know how true it is(,) so would (not) pass it around too strongly.
The folks received a letter from Don yesterday and he told of the girl having the rock and that the Ellsworth grandchildren would be conspicuous by their presence shortly.
It is time to get this in the mail, so (I) will quit. You must write me a big long letters(,) for I think we both have the old thrill and it must never die.
Yours for ever,
Pit
The Vermillion trip was clearly a success; the understanding between Pit and Pauline was solidified and enhanced and any concerns regarding her mother were allayed. The drive home was fraught with the problems of that era with respect to automobile travel, but this was only a minor annoyance to Pit. He reports finally having addressed the matter of his marriage plans with Mrs. Ellsworth and it seems clear the relationship between the two is much like that of a mother and son. The "Don" mentioned seems to be a son of the Ellsworths.

Written Wednesday morning (probably 4/6/21); postmark illegible
My dearest Pauline,
I received your letter this morning(,) which I was very happy to get. Rinkers certainly have my heartfelt sympathy for I have heard that his business affairs haven't been fixed up and at this time it is an awful job(,) for if you can't get your money(,) you can't pay the other fellow.
In regard to the time for the entanglement(,) I would be perfectly willing to wait until around the first of July. I am in favor of as simple a wedding as possible but as you say we have plenty of time to talk that over and I would rather the date wouldn't be set until a short while before it comes off(,) for there are some things which will enter into our plans and may cause us to change them. Once I plan on anything it is hard for me to change(,) but we can talk that over later. Three months seems a long time ahead but I think we both have enough to do to keep us busy until that time. I mean in the way of getting our stuff together and in shape so that there will be nothing to mar our happiness once we are settled down!
I must have been born under a lucky star(,) for yesterday a fellow told me his candy house had gone blooie(,) one which I was tempted to take some stock in a year ago. He is 45 now, (has) two children(,) is broke, and lost $8000 in the venture. I know my drug business will pay me a good living and a little besides(,) so no wildcat ventures for me.
I wish you were here now.
Your pal,
Pit
This letter concerns the setting of a wedding date, which Pit refers to quaintly as the "time for the entanglement." He clearly favors a low-key ceremony, with the specific date not set until shortly before the event. This "simplistic" approach is a theme that will recur. Why did he feel this way? Perhaps it was to minimize the gossip and nosiness characteristic of small towns. At least, he mentions concerns of this type. Interestingly, his letters are filled with gossip about mutual friends of a type similar to what he seems to want to avoid, but there is no indication he recognized this irony. One cannot help but wonder about how Pauline felt about these issues. Presumably, she was inclined similarly, or at least had no opinion one way or the other, for there is no indication she voiced any objections.

Written Thursday noon (4/7/21); postmarked 4/7/21
Dearest Pauline,
I received your very good letter this morning and I must admit it sort of made me sad. I have heard it is so sad to be in love and I at least realize it is true.
Mrs. hates to see me leave but with her, she is a person who becomes very attached to anyone, and I really think she goes too far at times in that respect. She doesn't like to see one of the girls step out of her sight and I think that is wrong for I think there are people who never marry but wished they had in later years.
I know your folks are very attached to you. Your father certainly showed it when Barbara was married(,) but I will venture to say that he is better satisfied now than had it not happened at all and I trust that he will have cause to think the same in our case. I am certainly not in favor of long engagements for I think our case has proven that they aren't a success in one way. I think myself that it was a miracle that we ever got together after that long a time(,) but as Mrs. says often, "The good man intended" we should get together or it never would have been fixed up. Now that we have decided and I am in love with you and I have every reason to believe you are with me(,) I don't want to give our emotions time to wear off. I could write for a week but would rather talk to you. I would dearly love to see you Sunday but I don't feel as tho' I should be away and(,) as you are busy(,) will try and wait another week.
Remembering my love has come to stay,
Pit
I heard this a.m. that Mr. Rinker had died. I am very sorry.
Again, there is a reference to Mrs. Ellsworth and the strong hold she seems to have on Pit. He also anticipates some mixed feelings on the part of Pauline's parents, based on their reaction to the marriage of her older sister, Barbara. But he concludes by reaffirming, "my love has come to stay."

Written Thursday night (4/7/21); postmarked 4/8/21
My dear girl,
I am going to start this letter tonight while I am marking time here. The council sits as a board of review tonight(,) looking over the assessor's books(,) so I must go as we get $4 for that work. There is also a dance in town but I won't go as I have worked hard this week and haven't been to bed before 12 o'clock any nite this week. Sunday night it was rather late, Monday night council meeting, Tuesday nite card party, last night was paying bills, tomorrow night show which I shall pass and also a baseball meeting down here.
We have a ring it seems up in front of the house. Last night a good rooster fight out in front and tonite one of the Hudgel kids hit Ansel in the ear with a big rock. Nellie Dear came out and caressed him a little and (I) guess he will pull through all right.
I told Bill in here last night that I might want him to be the second man in the ring on the big day. He said, "By ____, you are going to either force me to get married or leave town."
I haven't heard when Mr. Rinker is to be buried but (I) suppose about Sunday in S. C.
Mrs. E- was very surprised when you went over the hill but for reasons mentioned before didn't have much to say about it. When I told her it was to happen soon(,) she said "Well, if you both feel that way, it is all right," but I must remember that it was going to be a different life than I had been living. I told her I had weighed that over carefully in my own mind and that I was prepared to adjust myself to that life. If I wasn't prepared(,) then I would never be in favor of getting married, but since I am and I think you also are prepared to adjust yourself and I see nothing else to mar our happiness, then my better judgement tells me to go ahead. That judgement has never failed me yet and I have every reason to believe that it is still on the job.
I am still an optimist, altho' my optimistic spirit was rather low around the first of the year. I soon began to pep up and always said every day will be a holiday bye and bye. All things are for the best. Friday morning
Mayme was sick this morning so I had to get down about 7:30. She is still sick so will have to get someone to relieve me at noon.
I didn't go over to the dance last night but wheeled right on home as I was tired and it was late when I got through at (the) council meeting
I saw an announcement of Mr. Rinker's death in the paper this a.m., along with funeral arrangements. I suppose there will be several from here attend the funeral. I may go over myself but am not sure yet.
I wouldn't write Bessie Eisentraut too soon(,) for she is an awful gossip and she certainly would have one or two days to give you during the week. Mrs. Jack Fitz is very good along that line but I don't know whether you can or not, I don't think, for a while at least.
Mrs. Lester was in this morning and wanted to know if it would inconvenience us any if they didn't move until the first week in June. You know what time of the year this is. Well, you're the cause of it all.
Affectionately,
Pit
This is one of a number of letters that mentions social activities such as a dance and a card party. While repeatedly affirming his feelings for Pauline, Pit did not seem to feel a need to stay home and avoid these functions. The "Ansel" mentioned was Ansel Moore, a mentally retarded boy; Nellie was his mother. Bill O'Neill, Pit's best friend, on being told of the marriage plans, responds by indicating that he, too, will soon "go over the hill." Once again there is this rather odd situation with Mrs. Ellsworth whose blessing seems to be as necessary as it is hard to get. Clearly, her relationship was much more than that of a landlady. Bessie Eisentraut and Mrs. Jack Fitz are mentioned as potential domestic help.

Written Saturday morning (4/9/21); postmarked 4/9/21
Dear Pauline,
I didn't receive a letter from you this morning but I think you answered one to me that you didn't receive, so (I) am going to believe that you were unable to write or else it got slowed up in the mail. I think that will prove to you that I love you(,) for if I didn't (I) would think you were just negligent. I certainly would have appreciated a nice big letter this morning as it is a long time until Monday.
I certainly would like to be with you tomorrow, but I guess I can stand it a few Sundays until the time when I will be with you all the time.
Bill O'Neill is the new manager of the ball team.
You will have to dress your youngsters in fur coats and mittens, if you want to give your pageant today.
You haven't told me whether you were coming to S. C. tomorrow to the Rinker funeral or not. I may be there myself if it is a nice day and a bunch from here goes over. I feel as thought I should go, but don't want to be too conspicuous either. I hope you will take that the way I mean it.
There was a mean party in progress up at Heidelberg's last night when I went by. Tom and Phyllis Maddison hoisting them right up and H. L. dealing black jack to Loren Lucas and Frank Beers while Flora Lucas (Faro Nell) presided at the roulette wheel.
Lots of love,
Pit
This letter contains various newsy items. The description of the Heidelberg party must be an attempt at humor, for the Maddisons and the Lucases were Anthon's most straitlaced people.

Written Monday morning (4/11/21); postmarked 4/11/21)
Dearest Pauline,
I received your very good letter this morning that set you back $1 to mail and altho' I didn't pay the buck(,) it was worth much more. I went over and got the first class stuff this morning and still no letter from you. If I hadn't seen you in S. C. yesterday and no letter Saturday or this morning, I would have been going some(,) but as long as I knew you had mailed it(,) (I) could blame the mails. It was mailed 4/8 on the train so (it) should have gotten here. Don't beat Carter up because he was OK in his job.
I would have liked awfully well to have gone home with you last night but I am sure you realized, as I did, that it was best to wait until next week when either your father comes home or you come down here. I think half of the town was in the city yesterday(,) as every time I turned around someone yelled at me. I certainly enjoyed my short visit with you, only wishing I could have been with you longer. I am sorry I didn't receive your letter before the funeral(,) as I would have arranged to have been with you earlier in the day.
Bill was out riding yesterday with Lucille, Fat, and Agnes when they drove by Lester's house. Fat asked Agnes if she saw that house, she said she did but it was rented(,) and Bill never said a word. Mayme just informed me that gossip street was all aglow this morning over my being near you in S. C. (She) said Alice and Mrs H- were in on the conference.
I think Mrs. Rinker, Dorothy, and Helen all held up well and your presence there would help to make it easier for all of them. When the folks all leave(,) then is when they will notice the emptiness of this world.
Pauline, you are coming to mean more to me all the time and I don't see how I ever allowed you to leave Anthon when you moved away. You could let me know in you next letter whether your father is coming home this weekend, (and) whether I shall come up or whether you are coming down. It is 12:30 and I will take this to the train and beat it for dinner.
I love you.
Affectionately,
Pit
This letter, written after they had been together at a funeral in Sioux City, again expresses the concern about others gossiping as to their "intentions." Pit affirms his love and indicates he erred in letting her leave Anthon. Actually, however, the separation was critical in resolving Pauline's concerns.

Written Tuesday noon (4/12/21); postmarked 4/12/21
My dear Pauline,
I received your very good letter written last night.
I tho't Wayne was very nice but really a little different fellow than I had expected. He seemed very quiet. I can't exactly say I approve of his policy (of) hanging around just to be near the girl when finances are low. That will never buy the baby shoes. Yale Anderson was in here last night, said he saw us in S. C., and asked me how I liked Wayne. He said he didn't know him very well but he was well liked at school.
In regard to this man up there, you can perhaps tell better how to handle him than I can(,) but I would just inform him of the situation in a nice way. Then he would have no come-back on you. Friends are a great deal (and) we never can tell when friends may be of some help to us.
The 500 club meets tonight at the home of Lulu Ely. Her folks are moving to Smithland (and) the Lloyd Vogels are to live in that house.
I saw Joe McD. and Hansen in S. C. Sunday. They had the Livermore and Sullivan girls over, so I saw Leona in town with the Sullivan girl this morning. I expect they will be back together shortly.
You didn't say anything about your parade so I tho't perhaps it had been pulled off. In case you can't come down(,) then I will plan on coming up. Does that 1:30 train run on Sundays? If it does(,) I will try to make it. I feel more sure every day that the thing for us to do is to get married(,) for I would never be satisfied now that I have that end in view. No news but lots of love.
Pit
Here Pit again mentions Wayne Loveland, Helen Rinker's beau, and makes an obscure comment about his financial situation or attitude. The most interesting aspect is the reference to "this man up there," apparently an old boyfriend that Pauline seems to be having difficulty disengaging from. The rest is news and gossip.

Written 4/13/21 (Wednesday); postmarked 4/13/21
Dear Pauline,
I received your very good letter this morning and am glad to note that you are a success as a teacher, not that I want you to even think of keeping on teaching, but all the world loves a winner and I am one of the world. If you are determined enough and willing to strive hard enough to be a good teacher(,) then you would strive hard enough to be a good wife.
I think perhaps that some of the regular fellows around here imagine I am going over the hill in a short time, but they are too smart to say anything about it. The gossips have to have something to talk about(,) anyway. I never hear much of what they talk about since Jim has gone to the farm(,) as I am not close to anyone in the ring. (The) Rinker brothers were here yesterday and are back today. Link said Mrs. R- was at Oto but I didn't see Helen or Wayne.
The card party seems to have lost its attraction for me. Bill and I had some fun kidding this school marm who goes with Charlie Bennett. When Helen said something about coming over to visit us(,) I didn't answer her very strongly for (I) didn't know whether you had imparted the whole plan to her or not. It will be fine for them to come over when we get settled.
I will be up Sunday, for I want to be with you.
Lots of love,
Pit

Pauline has apparently received some recognition for her teaching, and Pit congratulates her while making it clear that her teaching days are numbered. There are more references to the "gossips" speculating as to Pit and Pauline's marriage plans and they continue to be secretive.


Written Wednesday nite (probably 4/13/21); no postmark
Dearest Pauline,
Things are rather quiet while the show is on(,) so (I) am going to start this letter tonight as I want to get one letter in occasionally without asking Umhoeffer to put it on for me. I am going upstairs after a while, as Ernie Hyde is taking his 3rd tonite. I have a part so (I) like to be there when I can. It has sprinkled here all day(,) so(it) is getting rather greasy about now.
Cauley was operated on in S. C. Monday but is getting along nicely. Link said Mrs. Cauley was up and tapped him for her allowance before he went(,) so (she) must have tho't he might kick off.
People here haven't heard a great deal from me as I don't fool around much lately. Bill and I have quit shooting pool, quit lunching at nights and don't go up to Cauley's much(,) so I don't put out much and likewise don't hear much gossip.
Jim Burke told Mayme tonight he heard I was going to get married but didn't know where he heard it. They will perhaps all know sooner or later but they won't get anything definite from me(,) altho' some of my intimate friends will know and people connected in a business way(,) as I will have to make some arrangements before I go for someone to take care of things while we are away on our honeymoon. I am going to try and get a relief registered man while I am gone.
Edna Lester is to be back here the middle of this month so I haven't written to her but want to see her when she comes and get as long a lease as I can. I won't ask her to fix things any as we can just have the walls fixed to suit ourselves(,) with her permission(,) for that money. Lloyd Vogel has rented the house that Weathers are in(,) so I have heard. I told Bill he should get that house and he said it was too far from H.L.'s coal shed over there to carry coal(;) (he) thought he would get H.L.'s barn so it wouldn't be so far to carry provisions from his cellar.
Ada Maddison tries to pump Mrs. but (she) doesn't have much luck. Do you think Ada would allow the County to bury her if she only had $200 left?
Speck is snowed under up in the cream station. (I) saw Peg looking around a while ago. I'm afraid Speck is due the route of his forefathers, for (I) don't think he can quit. Peg has my sympathy in a measure for (I) think she has paid the price. I don't see how she can be happy and that is the big part of life. Money doesn't mean a thing if you (aren't) satisfied. Some money is essential but if you are happy and it good health(,) it doesn't take long to get a little money together.
I am enclosing a card I received sometime ago(,) along with several others(,) and it fits my tho'ts exactly and expresses my opinion better than I did yesterday when I informed you that I was pleased that you had been commended for your school work.
Thursday morning
I received your very good but short letter this morning. There is a saying that good goods come in small packages but so does poison, so therefore I would prefer big long letters. I don't feel I can stay over Monday but will let you know in tomorrow's letter. It doesn't seem to inconvenience me to write every day and your letters well repay me(,) so I am in favor of keeping the old enthusiasm up by writing every day.
Lots of love
Pit
This letter contains a number of newsy items. When Pit mentions "upstairs," he means the Masonic lodge. Doctor Cauley has had surgery and the reference to his wife is amusing. Pit takes pains to indicate he has given up the free life of a bachelor, and Bill O'Neill has joined him in settling down. Again, there is an aura of the stealth about the wedding plans. "Speck" is Speck Connole and the veiled reference is probably to an alcohol problem. The letter lacked the envelope, so the card referred to was not found.

Written Friday morning (4/15/21); postmarked 4/15/21
Dearest Pauley,
I received your very good letter this morning on my way down to the business district. I rated a sleep-in this morning. This is a swell day to sleep and to sit around home and visit with a nice little wife(,) but as I have no wife and you aren't in town and I have plenty of sleep(,) (I) will have to put in the day arranging the drug stock so that I will have some time off when I do get that wife and on days like this (I) can stay around home and try to be of some use to you. I know I am going to like helping you arrange the house(,) so (I) am anxious for the next two months to fly. If you were here today(,) you would think me the most affectionate man in the whole world. Moonlight affects some people but a rainy day or night makes me want to love a real woman(,) and that woman is you. Don't you remember it was a rainy night that proved your downfall about 3 yrs ago, that started you down the road that has brought us both where we are now are. I certainly am not sorry that I did get you mother's new paper all stained with my wet hair.
In regard to the man up there(,) he must have heard that you had changed your mind since talking to me and didn't care to lay $10 on a poor bet. Of course(,) I don't blame him but after I had gone as far as he would go on through if it cost me $1000. That is my policy.
I will send you a special tomorrow letting you know about some funny things (that) happened in town last night.
I wish you were here today but am hoping for Sunday.
Pit
Pit was clearly in a very romantic mood when he wrote this letter. He addresses her as "Pauley," an affectionate name her father called her.

Written Wednesday morning (4/20/21); postmarked 4/20/21
Dear Pauly,
I really intended to write last night but there was a traveling man here with me and then too I was pretty busy as there was a dance in town. Fountain business was $15 yesterday, very good for this time of the year. I didn't go over to the dance. I have heard that it was very good and after the dance a wild time, they put on a cabaret down at Weathers' restaurant, a big bunch from Danbury.
Bill had nurse Lester give him a massage last night and she kept the machine on two spots too long(,) so he has two big black spots on his forehead. I told him he might have some explaining if they were a little lower.
Bert Hart was just in and told me that he believed it a good time to get out of small towns. He was over at S. C. yesterday and several fellows wanted him to come over there and start a store. I think he was just feeling me out.
I am glad that you will perhaps be down next Friday and (I) will tell Mrs. Kane that you are coming. (I) also will prepare to meet you in S. C. Friday evening. I haven't seen Edna Lester here but (I) think she will be here and if she isn't(,) you must come down anyway. I will write to Omaha Crockery and O & W for catalogues so that we may get some idea of what kind of stuff we are going to get.
As I think of my stay up there(,) it certainly brings back fond memories and I trust that in our married life the same companionable spirit will be shown at all times. I most certainly think it will always be in evidence and grow stronger as the years roll along. I felt that way and I think you do(,) to(o) or(,) as I have said before(,) I would never have even looked back after once I had turned my head the other way.
I think a black and white skirt would look very good on you and I would like to see you wearing it. I also like both of your suits(,) but prefer the old one to the new one. You certainly looked good in that new apron of yours and you would look much better to me in the Lester house in Anthon, not that I want you to put it on Saturday or Sunday when you go up to look at the house(,) but to have your feet cocked up on a chair reading or else washing dishes while I dried them(,) in that new apron. I can't say that I will go as far as Ben to wash them all alone while Mary sewed(,) because then I would want to help sew.
You will perhaps hear from Barbara soon and I trust that both she and Si can come. I found that small card and I am enclosing it with this letter. While it may seem queer to you now, I am sure that when you recall your school compliment(,) you will agree that it fits in very nicely. I am also enclosing another one which I think very good and applies to other lives as well as to business.
Your loving suitor,
Pit
In this letter, Pit continues his romantic mood, with small talk that looks forward to domestic life. The comments about clothes may relate to the wedding. Barbara is Pauline's older sister and she and her husband are expected to come from Ohio for the wedding, but in the event, they did not. Two printed cards were enclosed, one dealing with having purpose in life and one with doing a good job.

Written Thursday morning (4/21/21); postmarked 4/21/21
Dear Pauline,
I didn't receive my daily letter from you this morning(,) for some unknown reason(,) but am going to write nevertheless. I don't know how it should have gotten slowed up(,) as you said you were going to send me the one you intended sending the day before. Then I should get two tomorrow instead of one.
I was talking to Garry yesterday and he said Edna came yesterday and would be here over Saturday and Sunday, so we will get a chance to talk to her. I may see her before then but (I) don't know as I have a great deal to talk over with here other than to confirm what Garry has told me and (to) try and get a lease on the place. Garry said he had a lady clerk coming and wanted to get a place for here to room later on; she was going to stay with them temporarily. I told him that was up to you. I am in favor of renting one room to a congenial party as that would cut a $30 house down to $20(,) the price they get for (a) just fair house. That is up to you and can be decided later
I was talking to Kane this a.m. and told him to inform his wife that you intended coming down tomorrow night. He said he would tell her and they certainly would be pleased to have you.
In case I don't meet you at the train(,) I will meet in at the Martin shortly after five o'clock (I think that is train time). In case it rains too hard here for me to go(,) I will call you at home and in case I should be delayed so that I will be there later than six o'clock(,) I will call you at the Martin or else (I) will call Rinkers so you can call them up if I don't show up by six o'clock.
I was talking to Walt McCluskey this morning and he just called me and told me he wanted us to come out to their place for Sunday dinner. I must close or I will never get this in the mail.
One lover in haste,
Pit
The negotiations for the house continue, and now there is the possibility of renting out a room. Later, however, this matter seems to have died. Pit looks forward to a meeting in Sioux City in a couple of days.

Written Monday morning (4/25/21); illegible postmark
Dearest Pauline,
I left S. C. shortly after I put you on the train and I guess I came about the right time for the wind got awfully strong shortly after I got home. It blew several buildings down last night but I slept through it all. (I) stuck around here a little while reading the paper and then went home to bed(,) the earliest for some time. I surely enjoyed your being here and last night after you were gone things seemed awfully empty, but it will only be two short months or a little over until you will be here all the time and life will be full all the time then.
I didn't expect a letter from you very strongly this morning as (I) realized that you were perhaps tired and would have some trouble getting it to the train. It would have been appreciated nevertheless.
I tho't we had a lot of fun riding around(,) even though it was just in an old Ford. After all is said and done(,) and I am sure that you will agree with me(,) the car doesn't make a great deal of difference. It is the company you have and not the car. I really intended to get a new car but times have changed since then and I would rather have $500 worth of furniture than that much Ford.
Lots of love,
Pit


Written Tuesday morning (4/26/21); postmarked 4/26/21
Dearest Girl,
I received your two letters this morning, the one having been delayed somewhere.
A bunch of the fellows went over to S. C. to the opening ball game(,) but I didn't go as I felt like I should stay home for I have been away every weekend lately and I prefer the weekend company to that I would have otherwise.
I haven't talked to Edna L. yet as I wanted a little more time to think it all over as to whether a lease would really be any advantage or not(,) but I am going to try to talk her into leaving those shades and smaller articles. Her attitude seems awfully greedy to me, but I think she is just running a whizzer on us. Everything will turn out OK though. These reverse conditions seem to put a crimp in a lot of our aspirations(,) but things always have righted themselves and I am confident history will repeat itself.
I am sure Barbara is long headed enough to do anything that is for the best and will sacrifice a great deal and never notice it if she is happy(,) and there seems to be no doubt of that.
Pyrl Murray and Fred McNear both asked me yesterday when the big day was to be(,) but I just answered them not for quite a while yet. They are both very good friends of mine but I tho't it queer for them to ask me point blank. I want you to think of your home and me all the time, as I do of you(,) for in my business transactions I keep that always in mind.
Your man,
Pit


Written Wednesday noon (4/27/21); postmarked 4/27/21
Dearest Pauly,
I received your very good letter this morning and was certainly sorry that I didn't receive your letter Monday morning after you had put forth a lot of effort that I might receive one Monday.
Old Becky isn't the best looking automobile in the world but I think it is the best Ford I have ever driven or ridden in. I was driving Jim Burke's last night and it doesn't handle like mine.
The females had their picnic last night; went south of town, had a good feed and got back early. Bill convoyed the Chalmers back as usual.
I have a new honor bestowed upon me(,) one which I didn't want, Vice Commander of the American Legion. Not much to it but it leads to Commander, and I have enough as it now stands.
I was talking to Edna yesterday and I believe she is going to leave the shades. I didn't sign a lease but told her I would(,) for one year. She went away today but Garry is going to fix it up. I will bring Butler's catalogue up when I come and you can look it all over. That may be next Sunday and may be not until a week from Sunday, depending on when the ball season starts(,) as I feel I should be here for the first game. I hope they develop some rookies so an old veteran can get away occasionally.
No news but lots of love,
Pit


Written Thursday morning (4/28/21); postmarked 4/28/21
Dearest Pauline,
I am going to take the liberty to write this letter with pencil on poor stationery as I am pushed very much as you will see later. I received your very good letter this morning, also one from my father asking me to come home at once as he is failing and has some business in Omaha that he wants me to help him attend to. He want me to be there tomorrow so I must leave this afternoon. I called my sister and she said I had better come at once. I will go down this afternoon and try and get back tomorrow night or Saturday morning unless something detains me.
I am very sorry but (I) hardly believe I will be up Sunday. I may be(,) but will send you a special Saturday from here or from U-- tomorrow if I am detained. I hope his condition isn't really as bad as it appears but I will talk to Wyland while there.
This is awfully short and (I) will be forced to miss a day writing but will see that you have a letter Saturday. I have a lot to do in order to leave here by 3 o'clock.
Yours in haste,
Pit

Written Saturday noon (4/30/21); postmarked 4/30/21 SPECIAL DELIVERY
Dear Pauly,
I am going to be forced to write this letter with pencil again if I want to send it special so you will it get tonite. Niels and I went down home Thursday afternoon. I took my father over to Omaha yesterday and we came back home last night. That made some drive, about 165 miles yesterday for me.
I didn't receive a letter yesterday but received your letter this morning. I would like to be with you tomorrow but I will try and get along one Sunday (alone). This will be the first Sunday off for about five weeks and it will seem a long spell but only 2 short months and ever day will be a holiday.
My father doesn't look well and Wyland said I might expect a call any time that he had dropped off. He has kidney trouble (and) also has had a bad heart for years. He had some money coming in Omaha and he wants to get his business fixed up, as like Rinker he feels he is done for.
It is raining here today and looks like it is due for an all day session. A nice day to sleep. I think if this keeps up I will sleep tomorrow as I am tired.
This will be a dry haul in the business line but we can get in line for some business later on. There has been Catholic mission here this week but I haven't been up. Bill, Lucille, Agnes, and Jim Burke were up so we have had something talk about. I must quit and only wish I could be with you tomorrow(,) but I will try and think of the good times that are to be(,) and pass the day somehow.
Lots of love,
Pit

Pit has been called to Underwood by the ill health of his father, William E. Pitkin, and he made a hurried trip, accompanied by his friend, Niels Nielsen, also from Underwood. His father wanted Pit to help him get his affairs in order. He died less than a year later, on April 12, 1922

Written Sunday night (5/1/21); postmarked 5/2/21
Dearest Pauline,
Came down here tonite intending to go to the show but got to fooling around and the show is over and I am still here. There is an American Legion picture on and (I) really intended to go.
Vera, Dorothy, and Cleo were in here a short while yesterday. Vera said she would be back again but (I) haven't seen nor heard anything of her. I don't know whether she left town or not(,) as it has rained all day yesterday and today. Some female called the house and asked for me this morning before I got up. That may have been her.
We were fortunate in coming home Friday night rather than waiting until Saturday morning as we had intended. We drove home in about four hours' time.
I think Edna is just trying to scare us into buying that stuff and I think it a pretty good policy to just let her rave(,) as she said if we put up new ones (we) would have to make new holes and she didn't like that. It is as much in her interest as ours so just let her go out and hang herself with her own rope. She(,) like everyone else(,) could perhaps use some ready cash and tho't(,) even tho' ours may be tainted(,) she could use it nicely.
I haven't seen or heard a word of Edna Moen(,) so (I) don't believe she is here but if I see here(,) (I) will give her your message.
What I meant by the ball game was that I would want to come up the last Sunday before they open so I could be here on opening day and(,) as they open 2 weeks from today (I am sure) I will arrange to come up next Sunday, weather permitting.
Bill is out with the fair Lucille. She is very nice to me. I don't know what her object is unless it is that they may have a place to go when we get settled down here. She has always been very agreeable to me but much more so of late.
We had a lot of fun up at the house tonight arguing with the girls as to who should run and catch Ansel when he brought his May basket over to Mrs.(,) but he hadn't arrived when I left. Monday morning
I received your very good letter this morning. I tho't at first I was beaten but they put first class matter out last.
In regard to cooking, I think you have had some good coaching at home(,) as the meals I have eaten at your place have stayed down in nice shape on this wreck of a stomach of mine. I am not going to go too strong in my praise but am going to put you to the same Don gave Elsie. When she fried spring chicken(,) Don said the 160 was his. If you can make good strawberry shortcake(,) then you have a home with me.
I missed you terribly yesterday but am only hoping for next Sunday. You know what time of year this is.
Lovingly,
Pit
Pit reports that Vera, Pauline's younger sister, has been in town. He mentions that he wants to be in Anthon for the opening baseball game, so he is clearly still playing. The negotiations for the house seem to have taken a rather unpleasant turn.

Written Tuesday noon (5/3/21); postmarked 5/3/21
Dearest Pauly,
I received your very good letter this morning and am just as eager as ever to receive your letters, even more so than I was the first one after our patching up.
A fellow like Moen has my sympathy for I don't ever remember his saying he liked his job very long. At first he is in love with his work and then (he) tires of it. No matter if you are a bank president(,) if you aren't satisfied(,) then nothing is right. I feel that the drug game is my line, I like it and am satisfied with it, and therefore I get quite a lot out of it. I don't know whether Moen will become that same way with his wife but I know we have both noticed that he treats Edna rather queer at times. Edna is a nice girl and goes heart and soul into anything and I only hope Moen doesn't destroy her old morale. That man up there must be a deep digger and a long stayer, with me if a woman doesn't show any inclination to come half way(,) then her company is a bore to me.
There is an American Legion banquet up in St. Joseph's hall tonight. Bill says he isn't going but I think I shall go up.
I wrote a letter last night to Orchard & Wilhelm asking them for their catalogue. (I) have a Butler Bros. Here so (I) will bring them up Sunday if the one is in.
There is a new fellow here in the State Bank. Lulu Ely is quitting the 15th of the month. I think Biz and she are suited to one another. Both like to read and a better fellow than Biz never breathed. I have been out with him and he is just like a kid.
I am figuring on coming up Sunday, (but I don't think I will come until evening and (then) come back (the) next day, as I should be here Sunday morning. I want to have a good long talk with you. I think more of you every day and am longing for the big day to come.
Lots of love,
Pit
In this letter, as in several others, Pit mentions Al Moen, always referring to him by his surname. He had been superintendent of schools in Anthon and would therefore be called Mister Moen, and perhaps that is the reason. In any case, it appears that he in not presently employed. The frequency with which Al and Edna Moen are mentioned in these letters is especially interesting in view of the critical Moen influence on the Pitkin family many years later. In the late 1940s, Helen Pitkin Johnson moved to Madison, Wisconsin, where she renewed the Moen acquaintance and introduced their son, Donald, to his future wife, Patti Nielsen. Then, a few years later, Patti Nielsen Moen arranged a meeting between her cousin, Marcia Jenkins, and Roy M. Pitkin, a meeting that would eventuate in their marriage. Thus, the relationship with Moens, begun in the early years of the twentieth century, would have profound effects on the Pitkins extending into the twenty-first and beyond.

Written Wednesday morning (probably 5/4/21); no postmark
Dearest girl,
A nice big morning, me with a lot of zip, and no letter from you this morning, but I am going to write anyway, trusting that the mails are at fault. The American Legion banquet and dance were quite a success. There was a speaker from S. C. who was very good, (and) a good dance afterwards, (with) over 100 present.
Walter McCluskey was telling me the other day that Joe Thayer was engaged to Marvel O'Connor(;) he said Scott said none of the young fellows nowadays amounted to anything so she may just as well marry him as anyone. That certainly is a nice way to feel about it.
I was talking to Hudgel Saturday nite (and) he said most everything was off in the furniture line and he expected it to take another drop about the 1st of July. I presume that is about the time we will be in the market for ours and perhaps will be some lower then.
Lou Barber told me that Edna was coming but as his wife was getting along so nicely(,) she wasn't coming now.
I wonder what Moen intends to do this summer. I don't suppose he knows(,) for he may get the China fever before fall.
Pauline, dear, I haven't much to write about as I have nothing to answer but the old spirit still remains.
Affectionately
Pit


Written Thursday noon (5/5/21); postmarked 5/5/21
Dearest Pauly,
I received your Tuesday letter on the afternoon train and another very good one this morning. I am going to write this letter on a tab(let) for the reason that this is church morning in town and we are rather busy. There is a dance in town tonite so this should be a good day.
Yesterday afternoon I took a couple of fellows to C'ville and while there got to talking to Ivan Eckhart. He and his father are in the furniture business up there and he told me that he would give me anything I wanted at cost. He buys from Hopper in S. C. so if Hudgel tries to hold us up(,) we can get an order from Eckhart and get the stuff. They had some nice stuff on the floor up there and he priced it to me at cost and said it was lower than that now. (I) will talk to you more about that when I see you.
I saw in this morning's paper where Hamilton married that girl from Alta before joining Cleveland.
I don't believe I should leave here Sunday morning but if the day looks cold I will shove off early. I will let you know later.
This is such a nice day and I feel like a running horse. Even though I don't tell you in every letter that I love you, I think that my enthusiasm over the idea of getting married to the sweetest girl in the world will convince you of that fact on the occasions when I neglect to tell you. Joe Dixon can get through by summer if there is a Shrine conclave somewhere before time for him to leave, confidentially. I am glad he is going in as he may regard Vera in a different light. If he takes to the work as he should, then he will be a better man than he was before. At least I think it has worked that way with me.
Much love,
Pit

Pit mentions feeling "like a running horse," an expression that probably has special meaning to someone with his background involving horses. His reference to Hamilton "joining Cleveland" is intriguing; perhaps Hamilton is one of his baseball colleagues who has made it to the big leagues. Joe Dixon is apparently joining either the Masons or the Shrine and Pit implies that he is a beau of Vera's.

Written Friday morning (5/6/21); postmarked 5/6/21
Dear Pauline,
I intended to write you a big long letter last night as there was a dance in town and I could work late(,) but (I) paid up the first of the month bills and when I get through it was after midnight(,) so (I) walked over by the dance and on home. There was quite a crowd and good music.
I wouldn't think O'Connors would be in favor of that marriage but they must be(,) after what they have stood for. Joe McDermott had some girl from Moville last night. I guess it is off between him and Leona.
I have told you how we will take care of Hudgel. If he tries to horn us(,) we will buy from Eckhart. I received a letter from O. & W. stating they didn't feel like giving me their catalogue but if I would give them an idea of what I wanted(,) (they) would price the stuff to me. I just won't answer them.
I am going to have to get a kid here in the store as I am going to be away considerably on Sundays and I want someone to get this transient money that drifts here on Sundays.
I am looking forward to Sunday as two weeks seems a long time to be away from you, and beyond that I see the time when we will be together all the time.
I will send you a special tomorrow telling when I will be up.
Oodles of love,
Pit
The mention of a dance is one of many in the letters. Pit also addresses the recurring theme of furniture to set up housekeeping, this time suggesting they play off Hudgel, the local dealer, against Eckhart from Correctionville.

Written Friday morning (5/13/21); postmarked 5/14/21 SPECIAL DELIVERY
Dearest Girl,
I received your Thursday nite letter this morning and hope you feel better now that you have received two letters in one day(,) to make up for the day you missed.
When I was talking to Don, he told me that he saw Cecil Mahoney in S. C. the day after I was there and (he) knew we had quit. Evidently he wanted to hear the particulars but I didn't care to talk about it so (I) just dropped it. It is all fixed up now and there is only one thing to do and that is forget it.
Harry Badgerow was over there and told Don that I had rented the Lester house. He said if he could get a house like that in Elk Point, he would marry the girl at once. (He) said there were no modern houses there for rent and he couldn't buy one. (I) just got this finished and in came Harry Badgerow, quite a singular circumstance. He told me he was up to see Don and Don asked all about me, in a business way. (He) said Don had some car but wished now he hadn't bought it as hard luck has hit him the same way as everyone else. I told Harry I was busy and he said he would come back tonight.
Hudgel was telling me the other day that Frank Connole and Jane F. were over picking out their furniture. I asked about what it set them back and he told me confidentially about $800 besides music box and drapes.
I know you are very dear to your folks but I think we will be dearer to one another once we get settled down here in Anthon. They certainly didn't try to discourage you when you were talking to them of meeting me in S. C. and (,) as you said(,) your father was praying that it would be fixed up.
Love to you
Pit


Written Saturday morning (same envelope)
Dearest Pauline,
I didn't receive my daily letter from you and it seems like a long time to wait until Monday for one. It may come in on the afternoon train. I don't think you would fail me if it could be avoided(,) so (I) am going to write you just the same and send it special(,) as usual. It will be a long wait until Monday but I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt and write anyway. You were perhaps a busy woman yesterday putting on that pageant, and I also note there was a track meet up there yesterday. I shouldn't have tho't they would put on the pageant on the same day as the track meet.
We are opening the ball season here tomorrow with Hunt and Schentz team of S. C. We are also playing at Ida Grove at the Fireman's tournament June 2nd.
I wish I could find the fellow that got that $250 from the Martin Hotel. I would try and secure my rebate of $9.50. I think perhaps he stayed there a couple of weeks and was just getting his change back. You may think it was me or an accomplice, as I said I would get even with them, but I was on the road.
Trusting you always,
Pit

These two letters, sent at the same time, contain the usual type of gossip and secretiveness about their wedding plans, along with references to how Pauline's parents view the situation and the upcoming baseball season. The most interesting item is the mention of the Martin Hotel (see letter of March 31); apparently, there has been a news item about someone receiving money from the hotel and Pit wonders about getting his $9.50 back (presumably what he paid for his room but forfeited when he left with Pauline).

Written 5/16/21 (Monday); postmarked 5/16/21
Dearest Girl,
I received your two very, very good letters this morning and they made me feel awfully good as it has been along time without a letter, since last Friday.
I am rather pleased that you want to get away from the bunch(,) for I have come to feel that way myself. I noticed that when I was up there and didn't suppose you did(,) as you were used to have a bunch around.
Don told me that he was going up to that track meet. I think I am ahead of Don(,) as I put my earnings back into the store(,) something that will make me a living, while Don puts a good share is his in an automobile. A nice automobile is a pleasant thing to have but I think a home is something we would enjoy much more than a car. A great many people are beginning to realize that a car is an expensive luxury. I want a good car when I get fixed so I feel I can afford one(,) but a big car doesn't mean everything.
Hudgel told me that he tho't Jane bought very wisely but even at that got some nice stuff.
I don't know when I will get up to see you as the outfit is playing here again next Sunday(,) but if it is acceptable to you(,) (I) will come up either just before Sunday or the first of next week(,) as Richards won't be here next Sunday and they will still be short on players here. We beat H. & S. team yesterday easily, 14 to 6. I was at the head of the list and with those heavy hitters behind me(,) they almost ran me ragged. I intended to write last night but was so sore I stuck around here a while and then went to the show and then checked up and on home to bed.
I hope your mother is hitting all fours by this time(,) for I know I have turned an ankle and it bothered me for a long time. My face has gone down once more and I resemble a human being in some respects now.
I tho't your Friday letter very good from my standpoint(,) for (I) think you will appreciate your own home much more if you want to get away from the crowd. The Sunday letter was a nice long one and I surely appreciated it. I sent you a special(,) for I think you appreciate it and this is going to be my policy now and after we are married, to do the things that please you and I certainly want you to be the same way. As your mother has remarked(,) we are apt to have our differences but if we are each willing to come half way(,) they will be easily fixed. I love you more than any other woman and (I) know I always shall feel the same way.
Lovingly,
Pit
In this letter Pit notes the "long time" since his last letter from Pauline (actually, it was from Friday to Monday) and states his unconditional and everlasting love. He criticizes a friend buying a new car, stating that he will put any extra money back into the drug store. Baseball continues to occupy him and he expresses an obligation to the team even though it may affect his coming to visit Pauline.

Written Tuesday morning (5/17/21); postmarked 5/17/21
Dearest Pauline,
I received your short letter this morning but will pardon you as I realize you are a busy woman.
Eckhart was in yesterday and said he had to go to S. C. the last of the week and if I could get away he would call me up and I could go over with him(,) or else drive over myself. I would rather drive over and then go on up to Vermillion at night. We were just going to look at this stuff and see about what it is worth(,) to use as a lever on Hudgel.
Agnes Vogel left today for old "Virginny" to be gone two months. A nephew of Mrs. E- and wife came today. They are about 35 years old but have only been married a short time.
This business proposition is a good one. Yesterday was a slow day and this morning (I) maybe had 5 paint customers before I got down.
Irene was up to the house last night and gave Mrs. the information that she and Lou Foley were engaged.
I don't know whether you will approve of my suggestion that I could come up easier during the week but that is the case and as there are only a few weeks left before we shall be together all the time(,) I tho't you might concede me that privilege.
Frank McNiff's body is to arrive in N. Y. May 21.
Lots of love,
Pit
This letter consists of the usual type of gossip and other small talk, along with something about looking at furniture in Sioux City. Then, apparently out of nowhere, Pit expresses satisfaction with his drug store business.

Written Thursday morning (5/19/21); postmarked 5/19/21
Dearest Girl,
I received you very good letter this morning(,) written while you were sort of depressed. You have my sympathy but (I) trust you are better by this time.
I heard yesterday that Lloyd and Agnes were going to live in that Christian parsonage house right beside the Lester house. I am pleased at that(,) for Agnes is a real good fellow(,) much better than to have someone in there with a family.
If the weather isn't too disagreeable I will be up tomorrow night and in case it is raining so I can't drive(,) (I) will call and tell you. I just intend to drive to S. C. and leave the car.
Things have begun to open up here and it looks as though summer has really come. I am a hot weather man and I enjoy summer much more than winter.
Eckhart hasn't called me yet so (I) tho't (I) would call him this afternoon and tell him I intended to go over tomorrow if he was fixed so he could get away.
I have been busy this morning(,) although (I) got up early, so (I) will have to give this to the mail man or it won't get out. Trusting this will tide you over until I see you, I am very anxious to be with you even though my visit will be rather short.
Heaps of love,
Pit


Written Wednesday morning (probably 5/25/21); no postmark
Dearest Pauly,
I received your letter this morning and even tho' I left there a short time ago, I was glad to get it. I enjoyed my visit very much and the time certainly flew while I was up there. As the time draws near I realize more and more what it is going to mean to me to be settled down in a house of or own with the best woman in the world in a town that compares favorably with the rest.
I found H. B. and we got home about 6 o'clock. I worked then and (the) fountain business was rushing. While I was gone Bill Lee went off his nut. They took him to S. C. Monday night. Jazz music and short skirts were the cause of his downfall. I heard that Speck was in a hospital in S. C. and folks were pretty badly worried over him. I saw Frank and Jane around town last night. Bill was talking to Joe and he is going to stay here instead of going to Newell. What little I saw of Dux and Alice(,) I liked them very much(;) although they seemed very devoted to one another(,) (they) were past the kid stage.
I could hardly keep my eyes open on the train yesterday and I sat with those two fellows you saw at the depot.
I haven't said anything to Bill but will tell him today to get his shoes shined for he is going to be called upon pretty soon to aid in starting us on our life's journey
This trip impressed me more and more that our dreams are soon to be a realization and I say(,) "The sooner the quicker."
A barrel of love
Pit

Pit has made a trip to Vermillion, driving to Sioux City and then taking the train to Vermillion, and returning to Anthon the night before this letter. The visit seemed only to strengthen his desire to marry. He says he plans to tell Bill (O'Neill), who will be best man, and this appears to be the first formal announcement to anyone outside of family.

Written Thursday morning (5/26/21); postmarked 5/26/21
Dearest Buddy,
I received your very good letter this morning and it made me feel very good. I didn't know about those tablecloths but tho't the price was awfully low. I will order those items from Butler's tonite as I have a lot of correspondence piled up that must be done tonite.
The graduation exercises are to be pulled off tonight, (with) school closing tomorrow.
I took the Ford out in the rain last night and let it get a good washing off. (I) put the top up and am going to have it re-coated. I think it would be fine to drive up to the lakes for a few days. It would save some money and I would really prefer riding in a Ford to riding on the trains in this hot weather. I would like to take a trip such as the one you speak of, perhaps if we should wait as long as they have(,) (we) could take such a trip but I certainly am not in favor of waiting any longer. I want to take a trip in order to give the furniture a chance to be here and up in the house(,) but as I look around and see some of our acquaintances who haven't taken long trips but nevertheless seem perfectly happy-for instance, Edna and Moen, Jim and Hazel, and even Barbara and Si-I realize it doesn't matter a great deal just so one is satisfied and happy. In regards to the trunk(,) I was reasonably sure Bill had one that we could borrow. He said he had and it was up home but he would get it some day when we were up there. There are really so many essentials that I don't like to put out for something we can get away from. It will fit nicely in the back seat of a Ford.
I haven't talked to Edna but expect to see her some one of these days. I think as far as I stay away from her(,) the better it will be(,) for she perhaps has some new idea that she will try to put over if I act too anxious about sewing it up. Now she wants to sell the light meter(,) so I told Ike Livermore to let her take it and I will have a new one put in.
Pauline dear, I wish I could see you Sunday but (I) can live in hopes of seeing you a week from Sunday and we can have a nice long visit(,) for you won't have to hurry back to school. I want to be near you and only wish the big day was here.
I love you.
Pit
This letter concerns mostly the details of a wedding and preparing for married life. Edna is the owner of the house they want to rent and it appears that the negotiations are not going smoothly. The question of a honeymoon has apparently come up and Pit expresses his preference for a short trip by automobile to "the lakes" (in northern Iowa). Perhaps Pauline favored a longer and more exciting trip, but Pit suggest that might be put off for a while.

Written Friday morning (5/27/21); postmarked 5/27/21
Dearest Pauline,
I received your very good letter this morning. That quotation was from "The Shooting of Dan McGrew." Keitges slipped in down below the Hiller place on that river road. I spent about ten years of my younger life in Old Mosquito River so (I) should be able to swim.
I was in hopes that you were coming down but you may decide differently later on. I like to stay as far away from Edna Lester as possible for if we would get those rooms tinted before we really take possession, she is apt to want to take the furnace out and force us to buy it. I am really afraid of that individual. She swore to me that shades were never left in a house and when I wouldn't buy them(,) (she) decided to leave them. I think just let her along and when she gets ready to move and finds we won't stand for a "horning" (she) will talk very reasonable.
In the first place(,) I think the stores will be closed in S.C. on Decoration Day. Then(,) Mrs. Scahill phoned me this morning saying Frank's body was shipped from N. Y. yesterday (and) the funeral will perhaps be Monday. There is also (a) Decoration Day service here. I am a pall bearer so (I) have to keep in readiness. I don't believe I can be in S. C. for reasons stated above on Monday. There will perhaps be 3 weeks' time between the day your school is out and the big event so we will have time to look over Hopper's stuff meanwhile. I believe they have some good stuff as Ben and Mary have some nice stuff and Frank and Jane got theirs there. If it is good enough for them(,) with his money(,) it certainly should be for us.
It pleases me very much to hear you say you are going to try to make me happy and be an asset to me. If I didn't think you would do those things(,) the affair would have remained as it was. There is going to be a change in our lives but where love reigns supreme(,) all the petty affairs will take care of themselves. I don't like to cross bridges before I come to them, (for) everything will always come all right in the end.
I really like the secrecy of the affair as I have never told anyone here about when it will be. I want to jump out of here and come back married. We can keep a lot of things in mind and when we get back here put them over but as for a lot of gossips in on every thing, they never get a word out of me.
I love you and I want you to be happy above everything else but I like to be rather quiet about preparing and then "go hard when we go.' I am the same in business(:) weigh a proposition over carefully and when your better judgement tells you to shoot(,) go hard and fast. Then you're right.
Love is everything
Pit
Pauline has apparently asked about a quotation, which Pit identifies as from "The Shooting of Dan McGrew." He loved Robert W. Service poems and could recite several of them, including this one, from memory. The problems with the rental house seem to have reached a critical stage. Pauline wants to meet in Sioux City to look at furniture, but Pit points out several reasons this cannot occur immediately. Finally, he indicates how he likes their secretive manner with regard to their wedding plans, saying he has told no one.

Written Saturday morning (5/28/21); postmarked 5/28/21 SPECIAL DELIVERY
Dearest Pauline,
I received your very good letter this morning, also the one from Barbara. That was a very good letter of Barbara's for the reason that she took Si for better or for worse, not that it is any fault of his that conditions have arisen which he has no control over(,) but Barbara is showing herself a real woman by accepting those conditions and making the best of them. I don't think she is suffering one bit, and perhaps never shall(,) but she may have to deny herself something which she would otherwise have had, had conditions gone on as they were. Her case is identical with some others of us. I tho't a year ago that by this time I would have new fixtures here (and) a new automobile. I have denied myself those things(,) but (I) am making the best of conditions, doing all the business I can(,) in a manner which I think will make some money out of that business.
I think Si (is) a mighty fine fellow and one of those who will always come out near the top of the heap. I will venture to say that they are both happy despite conditions (,) for they are both in there battling to win. I have never become disgusted and discouraged(,) for (I) am sure everything will come all right in the end.
I think that should be enough along that line(,) but I am so full of that stuff that it has to get out somewhere. I could write a big long letter but (I) want to send this special so (I) must get it in pretty quick.
Frank McNiff will be buried tomorrow in Danbury, then we go on to Denison.
I would like to be with you tomorrow more than you know but my time will be filled full until after the first of the month. Even tho' I am busy I think of you a great deal and love you more each day.
Affectionately,
Pit
Pauline has sent a letter from her sister, Barbara, that apparently contains unpleasant news. Barbara had met Si when both were students at Iowa State College, married him and then returned home with him to Ohio. Probably the bad news involves financial concerns. Earlier it had been assumed that Barbara would return for the wedding, but she did not, and one wonders if money were not the problem. Pit tries to put a philosophical spin on the situation and assures Pauline that everything will turn out OK. He was inherently optimistic.

Written Monday morning 5/30/21; postmarked 5/30/21
Dear Pauline,
I am forced to use a pencil and write in a hurry(,) as Jim McNiff and Cecil Mahoney are both here this morning and they have taken my time. They have always been awfully good friends of mine and I couldn't run away and leave them.
The funeral at Danbury was certainly a huge affair-big crowd(,) four Legion posts, band, lunch at the church after (and) one of the best talks I ever heard by Chaplain (Father) Smith from Onawa, a fellow about 28 or 30, big, good looking, in Army clothes, and a wonderful talker. (We) went on to Denison and played one of the hardest games in my career as a baseball player. (We) got away to a bad start and played poor ball(,) but we kept pecking their pitcher all over the lot. Everyone (was) tired and we made nine errors(,) but out hit them. They have an all-salaried team and had their star pitcher(,) (but) we had them worried all the time. (I) got home about 9:30 (and) was pretty tired (after) a 65 mile ride one way.
Maude Ely was at the funeral and she had my heartfelt sympathy.
I will answer the questions you asked me in my next letter(,) as I have to hurry. I will try and see you around the last of this week or the first of next. Decoration Day services here this p.m.
Lots of love
Pit
Pit has mentioned Frank McNiff in several previous letters and in this and the next one he tells about the funeral held at Danbury. McNiff had died while in military service in France, probably of influenza, during or immediately after World War I and was Anthon's only death in that conflict. Thus, when his remains were returned, there was a "grand" funeral service and the Anthon American Legion Post was named for him. But he was especially important to Pit because it was work in McNiff's Pharmacy that brought Pit to Anthon and it was Mrs. McNiff who (along with Jim) offered to sell the drug store to Pit on favorable credit terms. Pit then goes on to describe, in unusual detail, a recent baseball game.

A photograph from Suzanne Folk; whose Great Grandfather was "Jim" McNiff and brother to Frank McNiff, read Roy's "Letter's To Pauline" and sent a photo appropriate to share right here in the middle of "Letter's To Pauline." I hope no one minds.(vsb) Suzaane also wrote: "Frank McNiff was the brother to my Great Grandfather, James McNiff. I believe he is the Jim McNiff mentioned in some of the Letters to Pauline. I was told that Maude Ely, also mentioned in the Letters, was Frank's fiancee. 
I noticed that the scene in the picture was described in the letter dated 5/30/21. You can see the casket on the carriage and all the men in uniform. 
I was very happy to read those letters. It gave me some more info on the McNiff's that I didn't have. 
Thank you-Suzanne Folk. 1/6/06 

Written Monday night (5/30/21); postmarked 5/31/21
Dearest Girl,
I am going to pull the unusual tonight and try to write now rather than wait until tomorrow noon for there is always someone to bother you then.
When I started up the hill to the cemetery today I realized that I had about reached the end of my endurance rope(,) for it has been a steady grind since Saturday morning. I wasn't so tired last night(,) even after riding 140 miles and hiking up to the Danbury cemetery and playing a hard game of ball(,) but it began to bear down today.
That funeral yesterday was certainly grand. There was an awful crowd, cars went three abreast, casket loaded on a temporary gun carriage(,) and about 200 men in uniform.
I would like to have you come down for a couple days and (I) don't think you would be imposing on Kanes(,) but you perhaps know better than I. I would like to meet you in S. C. but I suppose about the only place you would care to stay would be Rinker's(,) and Mrs. Rinker is quite a talker. If you don't care to do either one of these, I will come up to Vermillion the first of next week.
We play ball at Ida Grove Thursday and Sunday (we) play Ute here after Odd Fellows memorial services. I think it would be fine if you could come down to C'ville Saturday nite and I would meet you there(,) then you could go back the first of the week.
In regard to fixing the house, things can change so fast in this age that I don't like to plan too far ahead. I wouldn't want to go ahead and put out money and paint to have those rooms fixed and then have the bird get chesty and make some unreasonable demands. Then, too, I would like to wait until we get to the place where we are going to know about what our furniture and all the little items are going to set me back. I have enough money in sight by buying conservatively to pay for this stuff as we get it, but there is a limit. There is going to be a lot of smaller items such as a lawn mower, garden hose, and so many incidentals that we don't figure on but will have to have that are going to run into money(,) so I want to keep a little money ahead to take care of those. Tuesday morning
I just got to here when Bill came in and we sat back here and talked until supper time, as there was a dance in town last night. I said(,) "You haven't been up to see the girl for quite a spell(,) have you?" He said(,) No(,) not for about 15 minutes!" We had a long talk(,) and he is a level headed bird.
I received your letter this morning. Even though it was written on journal paper I enjoyed it just the same. I took the check over to Loren Lucas this morning and he said he would mail your father the two receipts as he had received the other remittance. Bill and I went up to Cauley's last night after supper and I went to sleep on the operating table, then got up and went over to the dance. I danced once with Mayme and then went home. I tho't this friend of Orville's was rushing Anna and not the real artist himself. Cecil Mahoney went home yesterday, telling me to come down to Omaha and he would show me around. I told him that(,) in view of the approaching event(,) I couldn't be there. He said he may go over the hill this fall(;) he goes with Bessie Braig formerly of Danbury. He was driving a Buick roadster and looked as prosperous as ever. Cecil is a real pal but he doesn't brace his feet in times of prosperity for reverses.
Barbara wanted us to come back and see her. Well! I would dearly love to go but the same is true in our case as hers. We are furnishing a home and I would rather have the home complete than short ourselves by taking the trip. Then, too, that is really a longer trip than I feel like taking at this time. In case they remain there(,) I certainly want to take that trip before a great many years. I have burned her letter so no one will see it. I don't see anything wrong with it as she is smart enough to face the situation squarely and isn't grumbling.
I do think you are going to be economical as you have had very good training under your mother. I don't want you to be stingy(,) for you know I never have been. I like to get my money's worth for every cent I spend. I like nice clothes and want you to have the same. I like to go and want you to be with me and have all the comforts of a home(,) but (I) also want you to take Barbara's attitude, that it is for your good as well as mine that we keep our eye on the bank roll.
I send you my love until such time as I can give it to you "in person."
Pit
This very long letter is filled with gossip and details of preparation for married life, but then something about Barbara comes up again. Probably, she has said she cannot come for the wedding but would like Pauline and Pit to come to see her on their honeymoon. Pits gets his back up a little, pointing out that it is the same distance each direction; he doesn't feel inclined to make a trip of this length now, although he holds out some vague prospects for a future journey. Nevertheless, it is clear that he admires Barbara. He also recounts a long talk with Bill O'Neill and his regard for his best friend is obvious.

Written Wednesday noon (6/1/21); postmarked 6/1/21
Dear Pauline,
It is so dark here I can hardly see to write(;) looks like it is going to rain everything from cigarette butts to threshing machines before long.
Edna and Moen came yesterday. I had a long talk with Moen yesterday afternoon(;) he told me they had stored their furniture in the garage of the place in which they lived. I asked him what he intended to do and he said he didn't know, (but) was going to Minneapolis in a few days. Moen looks about 25# heavier than he used to. I just talked to Edna over the phone. I never tho't Maud and Frank were that far along but it must have hit her pretty hard(,) as she left the community. It will perhaps take a long time for her to get over it all but new faces and new surroundings will be about as good a remedy as I can think of.
In regard to Vera, it would look rather queer for her to go out teaching after the folks had moved there mostly for her benefit, but Pauline dear, there are a lot of queer things taking place nowadays. I never saw such a period of unrest, but if it is hard to make both ends meet(,) then she should accept the situation gracefully and do whatever is necessary to keep the old ship rocking steadily. Things are rather unsteady now but everything will right itself in time.
It is raining now and you know how I feel on rainy days. Well(,) the old feeling is one with me today and I would like to be with you today. Today is the first of the month and I must go out collecting this afternoon. It is tough going now but I have to buckle down to it.
I realize you would like to have Barbara back but that is only a small sacrifice when you read the papers and notice the people in cities out of jobs and most of them with families which are bound to suffer.
Dear, I really love you and want to be with you all the time. I realize every day what you really mean to me(,) but (I) can tell you better when I see you.
We lost the ball game 7 to 5, but intend to retrieve ourselves tomorrow. I am hitting very good so far this year and that makes it hard for me to get away.
Isn't this an affectionate letter?
Pit
Pit seems to be depressed, perhaps because of concern over general economic uncertainties or maybe just the rainy weather, and this letter is a bit of a "downer." Edna and Al Moen seem to be having some financial problems, as do apparently many people. Vera is considering quitting college to work. Maud and Frank-whoever they are-are experiencing some type of difficulties. And finally, Anthon lost the last baseball game. But Pit's optimism still prevails and he concludes by telling Pauline that he loves her and wants to be with her all the time.

Written Thursday morning (probably 6/2/21); no postmark
Dearest Pauline,
I am going to take the liberty of writing this with pencil(,) as we are due to leave here pretty soon for Ida Grove for the Fireman's Tournament.
I don't want you to think I have cold feet as I am more convinced than ever that I should be married and that you are the girl. My idea was to impress upon you that these are strenuous times in all lives and I didn't want to overstep and be in a position where financial conditions would worry me and in any way detract from our happiness. I think you realize that under normal conditions I am not close but in these times I want to keep an eye ahead all the time. Pauline, dear, I realize that you haven't always lived in a house of luxury and that is one reason things are to the place where they now are. It certainly does me a lot of good to hear you say "You are with me all the time," for that is all I ask of you. If you retain that attitude throughout our lives(,) then there will never be anything to worry about. Hard luck may overtake us on some occasions but if we both feel that we are together on every proposition, we can't be beat and everything will come out all right. The old saying "They can't keep a good man down" is very good but should have this addition, "with the help of a good woman to counsel with him and be a guiding star."
In regard to having the walls tinted, it would cut down the cost to do the work ourselves but I wouldn't feel like tackling the last coat. I will talk this over with you when I come up and you don't need to worry one bit. I love you and want to marry you and everything will be OK. I know you have dreams(;) as in the permanent wave case I didn't try to argue with you but you came out of it of your own free will and accord in time. So if you enjoy your dreams, then go ahead and I will allow as usual.
Heaps of love
Pit
It appears that Pauline was concerned with Pit's last letter and in response he takes pains to reassure her of his love and desire to see her happy. He explains his fear about extending themselves financially, but then ends on a characteristically optimistic note that all will work out well.

Written Friday morning (6/3/21); postmarked 6/3/21
Dearest Pauline,
I am so sorry if my letter caused you to feel blue(,) for it certainly wasn't my intention to do such a thing. I noticed a small poem in The Herald a week or so ago that fitted my position very well. I don't remember just how it went but each verse would up "If your saying something is going to make it tougher for someone(,) then forget it." I had intended to come up Monday evening and perhaps back Tuesday afternoon. I tho't you would understand that if you didn't come down I would come up then.
Edna Lester called me up yesterday and wants me to come up today so I am going to go up this afternoon. I don't know what she wants but I suppose she has some wonderful ideas. I am just going to tell her that I rented that house for $30 a month and I intend to take it, so that is practically all I have to say. She can take what she wants and leave what she wants. If she leaves the things in the house(,) which she should(,) then there is nothing to talk over. If she wants to take some stuff(,) which she should, you can't change her mind by talking to her.
I suppose it is with a feeling of loneliness that you pass out of the school building for the last time(,) but we have all gone through the same experience. After thinking it all over(,) I can't think of one place that I would care to turn back to. I am well satisfied with my lot in life and (I) think I always shall be. I am certainly very sorry that you can't turn your stock in and get what you put into it(,) but I would rather talk (about) that with you than write it.
Well(,) we lost the ball game in a hard fought game(,) 4 to 3(,) but it is gone so forget it.
Edna and Moen were over. I saw Moen but didn't see Edna until this morning. She looks thin and I believe a little older. Moen was in later and is going to stay until Monday. Edna is going to stay a couple of weeks.
I wish I could see you tonight but tho't it would be better to come up next week(,) as you will be through teaching. In case some letter doesn't sound exactly correct(,) just sort of forget it until you receive the next one and I am sure you will be reassured. It isn't my intention but letters are often misleading, especially in my case where someone is always drifting back to the desk to talk to you.
I will close with love.
Pit
Pauline seems to still be a little concerned, and Pit tries again to reassure her. They are apparently approaching a showdown on the house. Noting that Pauline's school year is ending, Pit anticipates some sadness and feeling of nostalgia.

Written Saturday morning (6/4/21); postmarked 6/4/21 SPECIAL DELIVERY
Dearest Pauline,
I received your very good letter this morning and enjoyed it very much. You may rest assured that I am loving you all the time.
I went to see Edna last night and much to my surprise she was very reasonable. She only wanted to sell me the rods for the drapes and(,) as she asked $4.95(,) I told her to leave them and I would give her a check for both the table and rods(,) but she said she had decided to take the table we bargained for. (She) is going to leave the shades and laundry stove(;) she asked about the refrigeration and I told her you didn't want it. She said in case you didn't want the rods she would take them back. She expects to get out about the 10th.
Last night a bunch got in here and they played the ball game over and over. The wise ones told us how it was won and lost.
Moen was in this morning and I told him to go up and buy Bert's store and we would consolidate the two. He is about half in the notion of doing it.
I suppose that picture in "The Post" was Carter's position exactly when his girl graduated(,) for it means that she is going to get away from him sooner or later.
I started working for nothing two years ago but I now have more than I would have had had I worked 10 years for wages, and I trust the same will hold true in your case that you will have a home of your own and happiness and that is something money doesn't always buy.
I expect to come up Monday but (I) haven't heard a word from you whether you are expecting me then or not.
Love until I see you
Pit
The big news in this letter is that all the difficulties in renting the Lester house seem to have been ironed out. There has been another conversation with Al Moen; Pit suggested he buy Bert Hart's store (the other pharmacy in Anthon) and they combine the two, but nothing seems to have come from it. If something had, the subsequent course of Pitkin history would have been greatly different (see note following letter of 5/3/21, page 32). The reference to Carter, Pauline's brother is obscure. Whether it is related to Carter or not, Pit then extols the virtue of working for oneself rather than someone else.

Written 6/9/21 (Thursday); postmarked 6/9/21
Dearest Pauline,
I received your very good but rather short letter this morning and note that you are evidently a busy woman. That is very well that you learn to can fruit before you leave home(,) for perhaps you are under the direct supervision of an experienced canner, one who has profited by her mistakes. I wouldn't care to go through the experience that your folks did when they canned their first fruit.
Unless I hear differently from you I will meet that 5:45 train in C'ville Saturday evening. I am not one bit sorry that there are only two weeks left to prepare myself for the last lap of our journey.
I could get away from playing ball Sunday but I think perhaps you will decide to stay over Sunday when you get here. There are perhaps a lot of things to get done but in case you don't get them done(,) (I) can get them done later.
I know we have a lot of shopping around to do before we really have a home but if we do it together(,) (we) will have them done before we know it and time will fly fast. This week is certainly flying fast and is going to be gone before I know it. I have had a lot of work to do and am not done yet. Herst Kane isn't coming home until a week from Monday so I think I shall put him right to work and keep him there until we get back from our honeymoon.
Goodbye, June bride
Pit


Written Tuesday morning (6/14/21); postmarked 6/14/21
Dear Pauline,
I arrived home last night about 8:30 and(,) altho' not as hot here as in S. C.(,) when I got away from the fan (I) almost roasted.
I supposed your mother would prefer that you be married at home(,) even tho' it would make the work a great deal light on her. I am not disappointed for (I) didn't want to plan too heavily until all details were arranged.
I don't know just what you meant by saying that you were loving me more every minute so don't be too disappointed? I don't think that(,) if you should go mad with love(,) it would be too much(,) for that is what I expect and the case is similar to writing letters(:) you can't receive if you don't put out an equal amount yourself. I suppose I can wait a week later(,) as that was merely a suggestion(,) but when everything is fixed I want to go then and fast for I don't believe in postponements.
Pauline, dear, I enjoyed your visit here very much and I have every reason to believe that our married life will be just as pleasant and continue to grow more pleasant all the time, as we get more used to being together all the time.
I will see Hudgel this week and get fixed up with him and then meet you in S. C. one day next week and we can buy the necessary furniture at least. I will get Shrunk to work on the ring proposition this afternoon.
Lots of love
Pit

Pauline has come to Anthon on Saturday and Pit apparently took her back to Sioux City (for a train to Vermillion) on Monday. They seem to have decided on her parents' home as the wedding site, but nothing specific has been said about a date, other than "June." He is dealing with a number of arrangements for setting up housekeeping.

Written Wednesday morning (6/15/21); postmarked 6/16/21
Dearest Misses,
How do you like that term? I received your very good letter this morning(,) so evidently Dux left before train time. I wouldn't blame him if he missed the train(,) for when they don't expect to see one another for 3 months(,) (they) have a lot to get done. I have told you yesterday that I wasn't awfully disappointed as I find I also have a lot of work that must be done before I can get out of here. In this day when money is tight(,) a fellow starts to looking over credits and so forth that he neglected to take when money was plentiful.
Mayme just brought the parcel post stuff in and I saw that package from Butler's there. I bro't it back here but didn't open it as I haven't (received) a bill yet.
I would like to have a picture taken(,) to look back upon in the later years and be able to remark as I don my street sweeping whites, "There was the old man when he was in his prime."
Misses Kane was over to the house this morning before I departed for the business district and said she had received a nice letter from someone nice. I guessed right off the bat that it was you.
I want to sort of give the store a general cleaning up before I leave(,) so (I) will have to hit 'em high and far in the next week as I want to have Cub Bair get at those rooms some time the last of this week or the first of next.
Don't work too hard(,) as I don't want to see you all in on the big day.
From the "lucky stiff" who is soon to get the best girl in the whole world.
Pit
In this letter, Pit makes some cute and endearing comments. He calls her "Misses" and asks how she likes it. He indicates that a wedding picture is a good idea, whether he is agreeing with her or bringing it up de novo. And he signs off as "the 'lucky stiff' who is soon to get the best girl in the whole world." Clearly, this is a very happy man.

Written Thursday morning (probably 6/16/21)
Dearest Pauline,
I was up to see Shrunk twice and he wasn't in either time but (he) came down last night and told me to come up today and he would fix me up. I would prefer to have P. McB. rather than P. M. I haven't seen Hudgel as he has been away most of the time and I was very busy when he was around. Frank Zimmerman was just in and seems to think he is going to marry Hazel Haley.
I must look up the address of my relatives the first thing(,) as I don't hear from many of them. I have none outside of our immediate family. I will make out a list of the few friends I would like to have announcements sent to. I only want a few of my immediate friends such as Niels, Walt, Bill and a few others to have them.
I certainly do want you to love and honor(,) but the word obey sounds to me like it is meant more to use in connection with the word dog. Even in the store(,) I always ask the help if they will do a thing and not just bluntly state to them to do it. If the Very Reverend man doesn't insert that word(,) there will be no objection from me (and) he will receive his money nevertheless.
Harry Barber was just in and said he was leaving town as he and his dad had a battle.
The tablecloth from Butler was back ordered and I haven't received the bill for the bath towels yet.
I wish it was one week from Sunday(,) but (I) have so much to do that the time will be upon me before I know it.
A barrel of love
Pit
This letter contains addresses a number of last minute details about the upcoming wedding. Shrunk is the jeweler and Pit expresses his preference about the initial for Pauline's last name. Announcements will be sent only to close family and a few friends. For the first time there is mention of a specific date: "one week from Sunday," which will be June 26. But by far the most interesting aspect of this letter-indeed, perhaps, of any of the letters--is that related to wedding vows. Some, especially women, currently object to the woman promising to "obey," but Pit's strong opposition to this wording must have been very unusual 80 years ago. In retrospect, he was actually a strong advocate of sexual equality long before the concept became fashionable.

Written Friday morning (6/17/21); postmarked 6/17/21
Dearest Pauline,
I received your very good letter this morning even tho' you were indisposed. It is awfully warm here this morning and has been (so) all this week, but I like to see it hot, that makes fountain business and I like to work when it is warm.
I was up to see Shrunk yesterday and he took the setting and is sending it in to Omaha to have it matched in a wedding ring.
I don't know what about the kitchen as I will be putting on about all I care to put on now(,) but may decide I can stand it when I get up there. The tablecloth was back ordered so I can't send it up to you (,) but it may come in the next few days in which case I will forward to you at once.
I don't know exactly when I can meet you in S. C. but perhaps about next Thursday. I don't think there is any particular hurry on the furniture as I don't want it to come here until after I am gone. I won't tell even the help here that I am leaving until the day before I go.
I am enclosing a letter from Goldman which I received yesterday. I will talk to Lee Shrunk and see what he has. I hope our lot in live will never come to the pictures we have painted(,) but in case it does(,) I will say they can't break bad all the time (and) have got to break good in time. I would make your bear hug look like a dirty deuce if you were here.
Love
Pit
More last minute details. The meaning of the reference to Goldman is obscure but apparently it meant some type of bad news for someone. Nevertheless, Pit maintains his attitude that everything will be okay in time.

Written Saturday noon (6/18/21); postmarked 6/18/21 SPECIAL DELIVERY
Dear Pauline,
I didn't receive the usual epistle this morning but will send this letter special(,) as usual(,) regardless. I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt.
I was talking to Hudgel yesterday and he didn't say a thing about cutting the price, but I suppose we will have to buy some stuff of him(,) or in fact most of it(,) as he is a good customer of mine. I told him I didn't need to go over unless he wished(,) for we can then look around the City and perhaps can get as good a deal from some retailer as we could by buying wholesale.
We were down to the ball ground last night, had a good sweat and then went down to the river for a swim. I tho't I had better see if I could still swim, and I find the old ability hasn't left me(,) even after 3 or 4 years of idleness. Bill, Campbell, and I drove down to Oto last night but there was a small crowd at the dance. We didn't intend to stay and were back by twelve o'clock.
I trust it isn't a continuance of your illness that leaves me without a letter this morning(,) for lying in bed on days like this would be a crime.
I spoke to Cub this morning about tinting those rooms and he said he tho't he could get at it this week.
Excuse pencil and scribbling(,) as we are pushed these days. I send you my love(,) or as much as I can in this manner until such time as I can bestow it upon you.
Your buddy
Pit
Pit is getting the last bachelor-type things done: going for a swim after baseball practice, going to a dance with Bill O'Neill and Wes Campbell, and so on. He seems to be a little anxious.

Written Monday morning (6/20/21); postmarked 6/20/21
Dearest girl,
I received your Friday and Sunday letters this morning and I have a lot to say to you. First, I realize that one week from yesterday is the big day in our lives. Yesterday as I was coming home from Ute I began to think(,) one week from then I would be a married man, that hereafter when I played a game of ball(,) I must be more careful than formerly and I would have a woman depending on me and that I must not take the chances I have in the past. Last night I stayed here in the store and read the paper and (,) as I looked up(,) Bill came along and we went home together. We talked over the fact that hereafter in a lot of things he would have to seek the companionship of someone else. It is with a degree of sorrow that I think of it all, and again it is a degree of gladness(,) for through it all I think life will mean more to me. After a hard day's work(,) I will have a real home to go home to, and even though it means a lot to me now as I think of it, I think it will mean so much more when it is a realization. I suppose thousands of people have felt the same way about getting married before us, but after it is over the real people say it is the only life.
The reason I suggested we be married in S. C. was to avoid the condition you speak of(,) but your mother wouldn't listen to that and I don't condemn her in the least. She and your father want you married at home(,) even tho' perhaps it will be a sad time for them. Perhaps if our lives heretofore hadn't been so acceptable to both of us(,) we wouldn't feel sad when thinking of leaving it. The same was true of my leaving home but I have never been sorry that I left and I think getting married will work the same way. That is the reason I don't want to make too many plans beforehand(,) as it would make it easier for all concerned. I haven't cold feet(,) as I am ready to go next Sunday(,) and I don't think you have(,) either. In regard to your physical condition(,) I must allow for that and live and hope that in time it will improve.
It is time for me to begin laying my plans and here they are, with your approval. I will leave here in the car with Bill next Saturday afternoon and drive to Vermillion that nite. In case your father comes home by Saturday morning, he can get the license(,) if he cares to(,) and engage the minister. If he won't be home or doesn't care to do these(,) I will come up and get the license and engage the minister. If he could get the license and would rather I talk to the Reverend, I could write and engage him. You know this is my first attempt and in case those plans don't meet with your approval(,) let me know at once. If they do(,) kindly give me the Rev. Wilcox's address.
Listen, Pauline, don't worry about the affair(,) for a good many people have gone the same route and come through all right. Just get something to amuse yourself and keep your head up and keep going. I have worked hard lately and am feeling more every day that I should be married.
We won the ball game at Ute yesterday(,) 2 to 1. Herst Kane and Harold both helped us Saturday and Herst worked yesterday. We have a lot of work to get in shape so I can leave Saturday. I am enclosing Goldman's letter. You didn't say anything about meeting you in S. C. Thursday.
I started to clean up my room last night(;) threw away about 1000 letters.
I love you, am ready to get married and next Sunday is the day.
Pit
Pit is looking forward with great anticipation to getting married in just 6 days, but at the same time he is aware of the responsibilities of marriage and how it will change his life, again affirming his desire for a "real home." In leaving bachelorhood behind, he knows that relationships with close friends like Bill O'Neill will never be the same. The meaning of getting married in Sioux City, to "avoid the condition you speak of," is obscure. With respect to his plans, he will drive from Anthon to Vermillion on Saturday (probably late in the day, as Saturday is the busiest day at the drug store). He wonders if her father will be home (from his job traveling for the Sioux City Journal) and would be able to get the license and engage the minister. He has cleaned up his room and one cannot help but wonder if Pauline's letters to him over these last three months were among those he threw away.

Written Tuesday noon (6/21/21); postmarked 6/21/21
Dearest Pauline,
I don't know whether you will receive this before you depart for S. C. or not. I will meet you in S. C. Thursday noon at the Martin if I don't hear otherwise from you, 12 o'clock noon. I received a package from Butler this morning and suppose it is the table cloth. In case it is(,) I will bring it to S. C. with me.
I have been awfully busy this morning so will have to mail this at the train.
In case you can't meet me for any reason, you had better call me and tell me when you can. The time is drawing near but things are working out nicely here for me and I will be in shape when I head the Ford for Vermillion.
A heap of love,
Pit
This is the only letter written on stationary with the letterhead Pitkin's Drug Store.

Written Friday morning (6/24/21); postmarked 6/24/21
Dear Pauly,
Received your very good letter this morning and feel sure that we are watched and that everything will be rosy.
Hudgel and I came home last night(,) got home about 9:30. We didn't talk furniture much until we got near home, then he said he had a late catalogue from Davenport and would see what he could find in it, and also see what that outfit in S. C. cost him and if he could make a price on it. I just said, "Well(,) that fellow was allowing you a percentage all the time, wasn't he(?)" to which he agreed. I will see Thayer and Whitmer this afternoon and see if they can order a Detroit vapor stove.
I called Don this morning and he said I would have to sign at the time I got the license, but he would call and make a date with the clerk for 9:30 Saturday nite for me. He knows the clerk personally and said he was sure that the fellow would do that much for him.
I think we shall leave here about 4 o'clock and with any luck should be up there by 8 o'clock.
I guess this is about all I know so will quit with love.
Pit
The last letter in the series, this was written the day before Pit would leave for the wedding. Getting the license has been solved; his friend Donnelly, a lawyer in the same county as Vermillion, has arranged for the county clerk to open his office at 9:30 on Saturday evening. One cannot imagine that happening nowadays, any more than writing a letter one day with the expectation it would be received the next.

Each of these 51 letters from Pit to Pauline was undoubtedly matched by a letter from Pauline to Pit. Unfortunately, only three such letters, all written in the week before their wedding, survive. They are transcribed below.


Written Tuesday noon (6/21/21); postmarked 6/21/21
Dearest Buddy,
Your very good letter just received. I know how you feel and I feel about the same. We have had very satisfactory homes and pleasant associations but in spite of that are glad to give it up for something we think will be happier than the old freedom. As you said, just the fact that we regret to leave the old life proves that this is what we are more anxious to do. As the time draws nearer(,) I am more certain that you are the man for me and I'm loving you more al the time.
Can you order silver through the house in Omaha where you got my ring? I want Alvin silver because it is the very best plated silver and it doesn't pay to get anything but the best in silver.
I had a letter from Dad yesterday and he probably won't get in until the early train Sunday morning(,) so you can't depend on him to do your dirty work. I think the court house closes on Saturday p.m. but I'll call up and ask. How would it be for you to come on up after we've bought furniture and get the license then and drive on home the next day? Then you wouldn't have to come up until Saturday evening. Or you could come up by Saturday noon and get it before the court house closes.
If you have decided to go to the city Thursday(,) will you call me up tomorrow so I can go down to the city at noon and then you can meet me any time Thursday.
The clerk's office is open Saturday p.m. so you could come up then.
Lovingly yours
Pauline


Written Thursday night (undoubtedly 6/23/21)
My dearest,
You didn't ask me to write to you but I'm taking the liberty of doing it without your request. Doesn't that make you mad? Dear, I was certainly crazy about you today. It all seems like a dream now(,) but a wonderful one and we'll be so awfully happy(,) I know.
I've ordered my announcements. They won't be ready for a few days but the folks can send them out.
When you tell Ivan E. about that bedroom furniture(,) be sure to tell him that the dressing table has to be ordered. Was that set in walnut or mahogany? I think I'd rather have mahogany.
I haven't any more to say tonight and maybe I won't write tomorrow but you know it is just because I'm a busy woman. Oh - I'm happy and I love you.
Yours
Pauline
Ask Ed Thayer if he can order a Detroit Vapor #2 burner with oven below and warming oven or shelf above, and attachment for generating with gas and burning oil.


Written Friday night (undoubtedly 6/24/21) "Last Letter"
My darling,
I couldn't resist writing again(,) even though you may not get it. I'll chance it though - the last time you'll get a letter from your "fiancée." I am lying on my bed while Mother waxes the floor. We've worked hard all day. Mother tho't, of course, that the house had to be cleaned from top to bottom, just as if anyone were going to notice every little thing. But I suppose I'll be just as fussy some day.
Don't you want to bring a Kodak and several films? We'll enjoy pictures of our good times. I had my picture taken this morning and made arrangements for you to have a sitting Saturday p.m. or Sunday morning.
A present came from Rinkers today -- a lovely large picture "Sir Galahad."
I can't realize that it is only one more day now until things are going to change irrevocably, but I am glad that it is(,) cause I love you so much I want to be with you forever and ever.
Your buddy,
Pauline
Carter and Bill are planning to do something to the Ford and the others are going to sew up my clothes, etc., so we'll have to plan how to keep the car some place where they can't find it.

EPILOGUE
Pauline and Pit were married on Sunday, June 26, 1921, at her parents' home. There were few guests. Bill O'Neill was best man; who was Pauline's attendant is not known with certainty. After a short automobile trip to Lake Okoboji in northern Iowa, the couple returned to Anthon where they would make a home and raise four children. The drugstore would provide an important source of closeness for this family.

In the mid-1950s, with their four children all grown, married, and establishing their own homes, Pit and Pauline began thinking about retirement. A young pharmacy graduate joined the business in 1956 and that winter Pit and Pauline took an extended trip to warmer regions of the country. They planned a similar trip the following winter, but it was not to be, for Pit died suddenly of a heart attack at home on December 14, 1957. Pauline was bereft, but only a few weeks later she enrolled in college to activate her long-unused teaching credentials, and she then taught school for about a decade. She built a new house, traveled extensively, and ultimately remarried, before dying in her 102nd year.

Only a few of their 15 grandchildren could remember Pit, but Pauline was assiduous in keeping his memory alive, describing to the grandchildren his character, ethic, and sense of humor so that they grew up feeling they knew him. Pauline had many unusually close relationships during her long and eventful life but those with her grandchildren were the most remarkable. She formed a unique bond with every one and each of the 15 looked to "Nana" as a source of wisdom, insight, and inspiration, as well as a delightful person to be with. She was interested in the work and experiences of each and she took pride in their accomplishments, which were many. Yet she was careful to remind them of the importance of home and family life. One of them, the last to marry, had his 99-year-old grandmother serve as his wedding attendant, sort of a "best person." Another dedicated her Ph.D. dissertation to her grandmother who had been particularly interested in the research and provided insights to it.

Pauline lived for 44 years after Pit died, 8 years longer than their marriage. She traveled a great deal, met many interesting people and was found interesting herself by many more, and had numerous and varied experiences. Yet to the very end of her life, she never ceased to tell, always with tenderness and eloquence, of the handsome young baseball player who was in every way the love of her life.


Thank you Mr. Pitkin for sharing such beautiful love letters with us. What a treasure you found!

Wouldn't it be neat to have others who have old letters of family members and put them all in one book entitled "Love Letters From Iowa" - each chapter of the book would be the love letters of one couple / family member. Roy - these are so neat! What a joy you have given me in sharing your parents' letters. Thank you again.


The following poem, written in 1987, recalls a visit the author made to Anthon approximately 20 years earlier, when he was five years old. He accompanied his mother, Robert Otstot Barnett, who had come to Anthon to visit her aunt, Pauline Pitkin. It was the only time he was ever in Anthon and his visit lasted only a few hours, yet his recollections were both powerful and long-lasting.

ANTHON, IOWA IN JULY AT 5
By Hugh Barnett


Blinding, cloudless bright
Scorching, sluggish hot.
The road running out of town
Shimmers in the corn-bounded alley,
Disappearing far across the straight horizon.


Walking down to the ball field,
Three blocks from the house,
Passing old people on their porches,
I wave; their benign expressions invite it.
Besides, they could be relatives;
It seems many of the hundred and sixty-odd are.
I stop at the general store to get a Coke,
Typical Norman Rockwell with men out front
Busily sitting, probably talking about the weather--
That's what they're supposed to do, anyway.
The Coke comes in a 7-ounce bottle, not a can.
The man behind the counter calls me "Youngster."


I get to the ball field, expansive and clean.
It is the essence of what a stadium should be.
I spend a day in an hour or so,
Pitching no-hitters and striking out twenty,
Hitting game-winning grand slams,
Sliding on the cottony-soft infield.


Sweat cascades down me,
The Coke long gone,
Running down my leg into my sutures,
Which I got from tightrope walking
A too-narrow fence
Over a jagged-tooth chasm of glass.


The oppressive July heat
Finally conquers the unbreakable spirit
Of youthful exuberance.
I heft the Coke bottle; it's worth a nickel,
Trudging off for my aunt's house,
Leaving the ball field a hot and tired hero,
To regale my family with tales of glory


Many years later
The world is bigger and not so easy;
The future is not so bright and damn scary.
Youthful innocence is long gone,
Changed to a not-so-pleasant cynicism.
Looking back with a reality-tainted eye,
The porch-sitters appear bored,
The Rockwellian store beat-up and dirty,
The ball field shabby and rock-infested.


But Anthon at five remains unspoiled,
Unaffected by waking experience.
A happy remnant of irretrievable and unattainable times.
My Camelot.
A more perfect memory.

©Hugh Barnett 1987


12-23-2005
First off, I want to say I thouroughly enjoyed the first input to this Anthon page from Roy Pitkin of La Quinta, Ca. I remember his father well, although I was only a small boy at the time. His pharmacy with the soda fountain and comic book section near the front door was the the favorite place of us street urchins to hang out. No doubt, Pitkin was a force in early Anthon. His coming to Anthon to play semi-pro baseball is what strikes me most. The letters do not tell of how the baseball/pharmacy tied in. I would love to hear the rest of that story. Somehow, I have to think that my father - Cy (lefty cannonball) Carr and Roy Pitkin may have played together. At any rate, I have reserved my anecdotes to true life living in the greatest little town in America to my HOME TOWN. More to come! Vickie has assured me that she will not allow anyone to step on others toes. Thank You Vickie!
...So for now (Pete, Jim J. Dutch, Don F. Larry & Joe P. I'm going to tell stories of our buddy, Bud Farber and us renegades (OH, so innocent) Stay tuned. (Don't go hide girls, You're next)
ss/Jim Carr


Feb 2006

The Diary Exerpts of Madge Overstreet
came from our next contributor who is MARY HAUNREITER. She is the Granddaughter of pioneer families that settled in the Peiro / Anthon areas around the 1870's or so. Her Grandmother Madge Overstreet Pearce kept a diary as a teenager and Mary is in the process of transcribing the brittle pages that hold her grandmother's memories.

Mary writes:
"I have transcribed the diary pretty much as she has written it, although I have made notes on who various people are and corrected the spelling of some of the last names. She liked to abbreviate names and use letters in place of names, so I have tried to use the whole name so readers may understand who she is talking about or where she is talking about. I still have research to do about the names of places and people that she mentions; I am hoping that whoever reads this diary may help me in this way."

Webmaster's Notes:

Mary has now published her Grandmother's complete diary in book form with added content and photos! It is a very nice hardbound book. "Lest We Forget" Purchase the book at Lulu.com


The Diary of Madge Isabelle Overstreet 1906
Lest We Forget

Published © 2006 Mary Haunreiter

*Note: Life for a young girl in the Anthon area seems to revolve around working at home cooking, cleaning etc., and having a social life at church. Going to church meetings etc. seems to be an excuse for the young people of the area to get together and have some fun.

FORWARD
by Mary Haunreiter :

Madge Overstreet was born near Anthon, Iowa, May 25, 1886. Her family was originally from Lovington, Illinois, in Moultrie County. Madge's grandmother, Isabelle Foster, married James Earp, of the Wyatt Earp family but James was a cousin not a brother. Madge's mother was James and Isabelle's only child, Melissa Earp. There is some mystery to the Earp branch of the family and Isabelle divorced James when Melissa was 11 years old, remarrying a man name Silas Bell. When Mr. Bell died, she came with her, now married daughter, Melissa (Earp) Overstreet and Melissa's husband Frank to a little town called Peiro, Iowa. Frank and Melissa Overstreet built a farm somewhere near the Bethel Church. As far as I can tell it was near Happy Valley but perhaps a bit to the south towards Peiro and Oto, as she writes about many of the families who lived in the Happy Valley area. She always mentions walking to church and into town. Madge Overstreet, Lillian Morgan and Unknown Anthon Iowa girls 1905-1906
I would say the photograph was taken about 1905 or 1906 the same time Madge was writing in her diary. The girl on the left is my grandmother, Madge Overstreet, the girl in the center is Lillian Morgan and I do not know who the girl is on the right. You can sort of see a home in the background and it almost looks like Lillian Morgan's home but I'm not sure. Looks like Spring or summer.
I'm not sure if Lillian, as a young teacher, boarded with a family or who exactly she lived with. My grandmother, in her diary, never mentions family. Her mother was Mary Moore Morgan and I believe the Moore's lived in the Anthon area but I don't know where. Lillian's parents were Mary and Lafe Morgan. I grew up knowing my Aunt Lillian so I'm able to recognize her in photographs.

Melissa Overstreet, Madge's mother was a music teacher and taught voice and piano to students living in the Anthon area. Frank, besides raising cattle also ran a livery stable at his farm.

Madge Overstreet later married Harry Pearce, the son of Levi Pearce who lived near Peiro and with whom she grew up with. She mentions him in her diary but at that time there doesn't seem to be any love interest, that must have come later. This is a photo taken of Harry Pearce and his sister Bessie Pearce, around 1905.  You can barely see that it was taken at Le Grande Studio, Anthon, Iowa - hallmark down at the bottom of the photo frame.

Shortly after their marriage they would head to the SW corner of South Dakota to start a cattle ranch on the Pine Ridge Reservation. They would live there until the late 1930's and then would move on to Montana, then out to Washington state where they would live until their deaths in the mid 1960's. They had one daughter, Marvel, who was my mother. She mentions someone named "Marvel" in the diary but I don't know who that is yet.

At the time Madge received her diary she was visiting relatives in Lovington at Christmas time and the diary was a gift from her cousin, Harry Kearney.

The first few weeks of the diary detail her fun days in Lovington before she returned to Anthon and her life there.

Monday, January 1, 1906

At Kearney's all went away to butcher and I got New Year's dinner for Jack, Harry and I, and Harry got kicked with a cow and, laugh, I nearly died. After dinner Ben drove Harry and I over to Ulrich to take train for Lovington. I went down to Ralph's for supper and after went to a Banquet given by the Club boys. Danced and played cards. They gave each girl a cut flower "Red Rose" and boys carnations, served five course luncheon in the clubs rooms. All decorated and 40 guests. I stayed to Ralph's. Harry C took me home to Harry K......(unreadable word).

Tuesday, January 1, 1906

Didn't get up until nine, went up town after dinner and we girls all bummed around. I went down to Stevers for supper. We were all invited out to Floss Murphy*'s, the Club of girls but it rained so hard we couldn't go, went down to Lilian Cheevers* after supper. Edna K. was in. I staid (sic) to Aunt Bessie's.
(*Lilian Cheevers was the future wife of Harry Kearney, son of Sarah Overstreet but she died very young. Floss Murphy married A.A. Brown later in 1906)

Wednesday, January 3, 1906

Still raining and I got up and Ralph and I intended to go to the Wedding of Hubert Howell* but never-the-less we did, a crowd of a dozen and Charlie Howell took the bunch over on the train, had a good time but soaked through. The sermon was at high noon and we were taken to the dining room for a lovely dinner. Then went home on the afternoon train. Staid (sic) at Aunt Emma's (Foster) and Essie and I staid at home all evening.
(*Hubert Howell was another cousin and son of a sister of Grandma Belle Bell)

Thursday, January 4, 1906

Got up and went down to Aunt Bessies. Cora Richardson* died and I went to the funeral and I went back to Aunt Emma's. Ralph called up and wanted me to go to Shorty Foster's to a small card party. Charlie Gregory came up and took Essie too, we played and sang for him and a good time. Harry C. and Charlie came home with us but the gas was out.
(*Cora Richardson maiden name was Cora Timmons and she was another daughter of a sister of Isabelle Bell, she died a few months after giving birth to a baby named Helen Crete Richardson)

Friday, January 5, 1906

The breakfast was ready when we got up but we fixed food all day for the boys who were coming for music. We made sherbit but Lillian Gregory invited us to a "hen party" so we asked the boys to postpone theirs, they did...all were in costumes, half boys and half dressed as girls. I was a boy. Floss and my dad, Essie ,"sis Hopkies" had supper on the floor in tin pans, had our pictures taken and my pants were torn and I staid with Essie.

Saturday, January 6, 1906

Well we made more sherbet and we fooled around all day. I walked down town after some things and Will helped me carry them out. Kearny and Charlie came out, we played five hundred and had sherbet and cake and went home early, play and sang all eve.
Herbert and Cassie (Howell newlyweds) came over to spend Sun. The boys brought we girls a five lb. box of candy.

Sunday, January 7, 1906

We got up late all went to church but Lucile and I, we got dinner, had everything fine. Essie and I slept all afternoon. Charlie came up in the evening for music and brought me a drawing. I think so much of it. He didn't stay very long.

Monday, January 8, 1906

Was at Aunt Emmas, got up early and went out on the train to Lanton (sp) for my trunk, then over to Kearney's to big farewell and took my last ride to Lanton on a sled .(sp), my such a ride but left for Lovington. Mrs. Drake, Jake Boone came to call on the bride and groom (Cassie and Herbert Howell) then we retired.

Tuesday, January 9, 1906

My last day in Lovington. Essie and I bummed in the morning. I was hunting my things up, Essie went to Decatur. I packed my trunk and after supper, Harry K. and Charlie Gregory came up to play 500 and for music. Had a fine time, we girls prepared a lunch but such a time to get a fire hot. I built the fire and we had coffee, sandwiches, fruit with whipped cream, nabiscos, pickles. Just as we started to eat, the gas went out, so we, having no light, pulled up the curtains and ate by moonlight and told stories until late.

Wednesday, January 10, 1906

Essie and I got up at 5:30, washed dishes, such a mess, fixed our lunch and got ready to go to the depot, went down to the store and all the girls came and went to the train. I hated to go. When the time came, I left Decatur at 12 and such a trip. Freeport at 7 - and left at 8:40, reached Cherokee at 6, and bummed around until 9:30 and then started for home. Phoned out, they were surprised for hadn't got our letter, had dinner at Millers.

Thursday, January 11, 1906

Talk, I never talked so much and tired out. Just fooled around. Miss Morgan and I went to church, same old place and a jolly crowd, came home and went to bed.

Friday, January 12, 1906

Got a little mixed up and wrote Friday for Thursday.

Saturday, January 13, 1906

Papa shipped his cattle and went into Chicago. Mama and I fed the hogs and all alone all day. Baked and sewed all day and now I am writing my little book while mama plays. (Melissa Overstreet played and taught the piano and voice)

Sunday, January 14, 1906

Got up really early and Lillian* and I went to S.S. (maybe Sunday School*) After dinner she came over, we fooled around and then got ready for League. It was storming, talked as usual and went home and went to bed. A lonesome Sun.
(*Lillian Morgan would later marry Madge's brother, Charles Overstreet)

Monday, January 15, 1906

Snowing real hard but looks fine. The meetings still continue, sewed and cooked all day. In the evening, as bad as it was, I waded over to church through the snow. Lillian and I went and set right by mama, a small crowd, came home, wrote letters and retired.

Tuesday, January 16, 1906

Weather is some better, washed and cleaned my dresses, after supper, Morgan, Chas. and I went to Oto to a Musical by "Hoyles of Chicago" (sp), it was fine. After that a dance but we didn't stay only to watch them a few minutes. Had a dandy supper and started for home. L. staid all night with me.

Wednesday, January 17, 1906

Ironed. Fred came down and gave us report of the meetings. The preacher just gave us fits for attending a low down entertainment, but no use. In the eve. L. and I went to church. Fred set with us but not a very large crowd, had a real good meeting.

Thursday, January 18, 1906.

Same old thing, work, talk and go to church. L. and I went, sat on the back row and was very good. Got a couple letters from Essie and Chas G. Papa got home from Chicago.

Friday, January 19, 1906

A fine day, thawing. Papa went to Nebraska to buy cattle and mama went to town to bum. Got a letter from Floss. and Lillian and I went to church. Not very many ...wrote letters and retired.

Saturday, January 20, 1906

Baked and scrubbed, so rainy and bad. Mrs. Yotter came over. Lillian and I went to the store with her, had supper. Fred was here for supper and stayed all night. Lillian came over and staid too. We made fudge and played pinch. Telephoned N. and had a fight.. The boys just cut up awful, went to bed about 12.

Sunday, January 21, 1906

Got up very late. L. went home and dressed. Fred and C. wouldn't go to church. We went but there wasn't many. Kirk Lead, C.M. and we staid, had a picnic. Never got home until 1 o'clock. Had dinner, Lillian came over and we "rubbered' over the phone, had two receivers. Then went to endeavor meetings, closed without any success. Lillian staid all night with me.

Monday, January 22, 1906

Got up early to get L. off to school and my, it was cold. Fred McNear Was out for dinner and Chas and he went to Sargent Bluffs* for cattle. Grandma and I was alone after supper. L. brought her tea jackets over to cut out. Grandma did the work and L and I rubbered. She staid all night with me.
(*Sargent Bluffs was a town in Iowa)

Tuesday, January 23, 1906

Grandma called and called us, finally we got up. Mama phoned, she and Mr. Miller were coming out and we baked all morning and John and Tom Clark and Lim came for dinner. Hadn't seen them for 7 years. Papa and Chas, George and Fred came with cattle. Had a houseful after supper. We all had music.

Wednesday, January 24, 1906

Company still here, visited all day after supper. They wanted us to go skating but wouldn't. Charlie and Dina Diest came and we started down to Springlier. Chas O went after Lillian and we went on to the store, we waited for them and they never came so Dina and I came back. I staid all night with her.

Thursday, January 25, 1906

Went home and the company went home, after dinner Chas went to town and staid all night with Fred. I went over to Clift's and staid with Lillian, all of C's went to prayer meeting.

Friday, January 26, 1906

We washed and butchered, worked all day. In eve. Chas and I went down to Springlin (sp). , played "icarem". Fred, Chas, Mable and I, Fred rode home with me and Chas rode the horse.

Saturday, January 27, 1906

Hauled hogs to Anthon. $500 worth and about noon I drove in first time since I came home. Gertie and I bummed around and planned to go to Oto. So I went home with Gertie and Scott but didn't go. I staid all night. We had oyster stew and went to bed.

Sunday, January 28, 1906

Came home with papa, didn't go to church after dinner. Chas, Lillian and I walked down to S., all gone and L and I went to the store. My it was muddy. Henry treated us, we bought some candy and peanuts, over shoes and walked home. After supper went to church. Uncle Jim and Aunt Nan came down and staid all night.

Monday, January 29, 1906

Washed and company went home. I cleaned my room and the parlor so I was tired and went to bed early.

Tuesday, January 30, 1906

Worked all day. In the eve. Chas, Lillian, Fred and I went to "College Corners" to church and after church we, F and I went skating, thinking C and L would follow but when we got home they were sitting by the warm fire and we almost frozen. Lillian staid all night with me.

Wednesday, January 31, 1906

Lillian had to go to school without her breakfast. I worked and sewed. After supper went over to Deist's (?) awhile.

Thursday, February 1, 1906

Worked and staid to home all day went to bed early.

Friday, February 2, 1906

Swept and sewed, wanted to go to church but couldn't. Now I am going to bed.

Saturday, February 3, 1906

Mama went to town, papa also. Grama (Isabelle Bell), Chas and I were all alone. We baked and after dinner, Lillian and walked down to Peiro. I got a letter from Will, much to my surprise. After supper Chas and Fred were going to a party but didn't. We played cards. Fred and Lillian staid all night and peanut feast.

Sunday, February 4, 1906

Mrs. Cleft called us but nobody got up. It was nine before we did. Staid to home, made all kinds of candy and ice cream. Had a circus. Didn't get dinner. After supper Lillian and I went to church. Had as usual, a quiet time. After I camehome I wrote letters before retiring.

Monday, February 5, 1906

Colder and we washed after supper. Lillian came over, also "Welsie Farmer" ate the rest of our ice cream and rubbered over the phone. Chas took L. home and I went to bed.

Tuesday, February 6, 1906

Didn't do much of anything and talked awhile to Mable and went to bed.

Wednesday, February 8, 1906

Papa got foolish and woke up at 2:30, thinking it morning. He got up and all the rest of us. I was mad. I did my ironing by lamplight and then you bet I went back to bed. Wrote letters, got four postals from C.A.G. (Charles Andrew Gregory, lived in Lovington and was a cousin of Madge's)

Thursday, February 9, 1906

Did up the work. Mama and I went to town (Piero). It was very cold, nearly froze coming home. Papa gave me a calf, if I would feed it. After supper, L (Lillian Morgan), and Chas and I went to College Corners to church. Cold, I should say. L. staid all night with me and we watched the total eclipse of moon. It was true, we nearly went to sleep waiting for it.

Friday, February 9, 1906

Warmer, weather. Chas went to town. We sewed all day and nothing extra. Mama is sick tonight; bad cold.

Saturday, February 10, 1906

Did the Saturday's work after dinner. Lillian and I went to the store (as usual) and had a little fun. After supper I went to bed.

Sunday, February 11, 1906

Got up real early and went to SS. Is a fine warm day and after dinner Mable, Lillian and I drove to "College Corners" to church to a big crowd. After supper L and I went to league but just a small crowd.

Monday, February 12, 1906

A lovely day just like Spring. We washed but in the eve. It began to rain. Ethel Witt called up and Margaret Yockey* (girlfriend). It snowed before morning.
*Margaret Yockey - married William Allan Cory
Born: 4 Jan 1881 - Smithland, Woodbury, IA
Died: 3 May 1959, Sioux City, Woodbury, IA,

Tuesday, February 13, 1906

A regular old fashioned blizzard storm all day. Papa was sick. Nate S. came over to help us. I just worked and went to bed early.

Wednesday, February 14, 1906

Valentines Day. Still blowing but it cleared off before eve. I got 3 Valentine's cards from Chas O., and Chas Gregory. Dishes after supper. I went over to Clift's and Lillian, Winnefred and I made our boxes for Friday eve. I staid all night.

Thursday, February 15, 1906

We were late in getting up. I went home and then I worked as usual after dinner. Drove to Piero. The roads were drifted quite badly. In eve "saled" a little over the phone and went to bed.

Friday, February 16, 1906

Still snowing and snowed all day but didn't stop us from going to the Box Supper at Center - Lillian's school. Harry Pearce took a bobsled and took John Griggs, Henry W., Charlie D, Lillian Morgan, Winnefred and I. Had a dandy ride. We fell down, auctioneered the boxes, brought $3.75, had recitations. L.M. and J.G.'s ate supper. Henry got(bought) my box. Lillian staid all night with me.

Saturday, February 17, 1906

Lillian staid all morning. Nate took her home in bobsled. I did up Saturday's work and slept in after noon and now I'm writing and will soon go to bed.

Sunday, February 18, 1906

Got up real early and went to S.S. The snow is melting fast. After dinner Chas Deist took a bob sled load. Winnefred, Lillian, Henry and I down to College Corners to church. It was fine sleighing and there was a large crowd. E.S. came back with us. We snow balled and washed faces. Lillian and I went to church and such a time. E.W. brought me home but

Monday, February 19, 1906

Snow is nearly all gone. We washed a little of everything. I was tired and went to bed early.

Tuesday, February 20, 1906

Ironed and a little more of everything. The snow is all gone, the weather is fine.

Wednesday, February 21, 1906

Nothing to forget, just among the living. Mama went to meeting at Winterreigers (?). I was sick, felt awful bad.

Thursday, February 22, 1906

I got ready and went to take the McNear Bro's team in town but stopped at Gerty O'Conner's and Scott took them in. I staid there. We had a time and I entertained the school teacher. We sang and played all evening.

Friday, February 23, 1906

We didn't rise very early but got the S. marm (school marm) off in due time. Scott took Marvel down to Hall's to stay while we went to the dance. Had an old picture man. We had a circus with him. We sewed and got our gowns all ready to wear and started in town early. Took supper at Gilman's and run our face. Then we went up to Barto's, dressed. Lillian and Chas came in and we all went to the dance. The music got stuck and never got there until 1:00. Had a grand supper at Bert's and we staid all at night at Barto's.

Saturday February 24, 1906

Didn't get up until late and we did some shopping and then started home. The roads were a sight, took us two hr's to drive and we, Chas and Lillian got to throwing mud and their faces were covered when they got home. Papa was waiting for the team and was mad because we didn't get home sooner. I slept in P.M. and went to bed early.

Sunday, February 25, 1906

Went to S.S. in the morning and Margie, Lillian, Nellie*, Bessie* and I staid for class meeting. It wasn't very exciting. After dinner Dana came over. After supper I went after Lillian and we went to League but there weren't many out, went home and went to bed.
*Nellie and Bessie are Harry Pearce's sisters. Can't identify "Margie maybe Margaret Yockey".

Monday, February 26, 1906

We washed and grandma sewed on my dress. Just fooled around, rubbered awhile over the phone and went to bed.

Tuesday, February 27, 1906

Ironed and baked, sewed after dinner. After supper I went over to Clift's* to prayer meeting. Elmer W. called me up. Lillian staid all night with me, we came home about 10:00.
*Clift's is a name she spells several ways but they were people who lived in the Happy Valley area.

Wednesday, February 28, 1906

Just worked as usual and Fred came home with Chas for supper and they to a party. I wrote Harry (her cousin Harry Kearney of Lovington) a letter and received one from Ralph. Now I am going to bed - good night.

Thursday, March 1, 1906

Worked and rubbered over phone. Chas went over to see Lillian and I went to bed.

Friday, March 2, 1906

Rained a little, a very bad day. I baked doughnuts and the first I ever tried. I had barrelful. After dinner I took Lillian to Giffordsville. Her school was out. Henry fixed us up something to eat. My, the roads! We had bad mud, we had a circus going, played and sang and acted a fool. It snowed all night and froze.

This installment goes from March 1906 through June 1906 - after this section is her big trip to Kentucky to visit relatives there. It may not be as interesting to Anthon people because she's there about 4 weeks. Then she returns and there are a missing couple of months where she doesn't write at all in the diary, then she picks it up again in the Fall.

Saturday, March 3, 1906

Still snowing but we got up late and I had to hurry home. All alone. Had a fierce drive home. Charles went to Anthon. Dena Diest came over in eve.

Sunday, March 4, 1906

Went to Sunday School but the roads are so bad that nearly everybody walked and a small crowd. I came home, got dinner, read, played and slept. After supper went to church and not very many out. I am going to bed now. Good night.

Monday, March 5, 1906

Washed and scrubbed and sewed in afternoon.

Tuesday, March 6, 7, 8, 1906

No entry

Friday, March 9, 1906

Just worked and staid to home. It snows and the sun shines but I must retire.

Saturday, March 10, 1906

Did Saturday's work, took bath and did some burning.

Sunday, March 11, 1906

Went to S.S. and church. Mable Spangler, Henry Winterringer, Ed and Minnie and I staid for Class meeting. After dinner Dena and I stayed in the church all afternoon and visited. In eve. Dena and I went to church, small crowd.

Monday, March 12, 1906

Washed and scrubbed and I am tired, am going to bed.

Tuesday, March 13, 1906

Ironed in the morning, after dinner went over to Dena's and staid awhile. After supper, Will, D. and I walked to Mable's and Will went to church or prayer meeting at Pearce's. Came with out and we came alone. (sic)

Wednesday, March 14, 1906

Didn't do anything but sew and wrote some letters.

Thursday, March 15, 1906

Worked in the morning, After dinner walked to Mable's in Piero. Watched them sew. It snowed, I walked home, got a letter from Elmer and Georgia.

Friday, March 16, 1906.

Just worked and cooked, and went to bed early. Rose Winterringer came up and spent the afternoon and for supper.

Saturday, March 17, 1906

Got up early and baked all fore noon. Getting ready for the Box supper. Nellie came down after dinner and I made my box and about six we started. Charlie, Nell and I went to Holly Springs to a Box supper. Is fine program, had a big time. Charles got Nellie's and Elmer W. bought mine from some kid. After we ate we came home. Nell with Walter, Charles and Flora C., Elmer and I. All the roads are rough for one horse, better for two, Nell said. We piled into bed at 2:30.

Sunday, March 18, 1906

Nellie and I didn't get up until eight - dressed and went to S.S.. Ott Nendel gave us a Temperance lecture but we left before it was out. I went home with Nell and Walter and it snowed real hard all afternoon. We played, sang, then got ready and went to church. Walter, Margaret, Nell and I had a picnic telling stories. Wasn't hardly any one there. I wore some body's No. 11 (?) home. Wrote to E and went to bed.

Monday, March 1906

We didn't wash, just sewed and did house work and I went to bed early.

Tuesday, March 20, 1906

Sewed all day, wanted to go to prayer meeting but Chas run off. I went to bed early.

Wednesday, March 21, 1906

Started to wash and Mrs. Winterringer wanted Mama to go to Society and I finished washing, talked awhile to Mable and then went to bed.

Thursday, March 22, 1906

Mama and Papa went to town. It was a very nice day. Didn't do anything but sew. Grandma (Isabelle Bell) and I all alone.

Friday, March 23, 1906

A very bad day. Mama and Papa still in town. It came up a regular blizzard. I got a letter from E. , wanted me to go H.S. (Holly Springs) Sunday eve. Mable and I talked awhile and I went to bed.

Saturday, March 24, 1906

It cleared off some. We baked and scrubbed and cleaned up the house. In the eve I didn't do anything but go to bed.

Sunday, March 25, 1906

Raining but Mama and I got ready and went to church. Not very many out. I just sit around all day until Charles and Lillian came. Got them supper, we listened to a crowd sing over phone. Talked to E. and then Lillian and I went to bed, and cut up a long while. There wasn't any church.

Monday, March 26, 1906

We got up real early. I drove Lillian over to school*. My, the creek is way up, terrible muddy. We didn't do anything in particular all day but eat and cook. I got 13 postals, wrote a couple of letters and went to bed. *Lillian Morgan taught school at Central school.

Tuesday, March 17, 1906

A gloomy day and the roads are fierce. We didn't do much of anything. Election day. Frank Walling, Mayor of Anthon. After supper went over to Dena's and we went to Clift's to prayer meeting, only a few there. Will, Charlie Yotter*, Dena and I. It is awful muddy, lost my rubbers coming home. *Charles Yotter would later marry Nellie Pearce, the sister of Harry Pearce - Madge's future husband. Charles Yotter was a minister at Bethel Church later.

Wednesday, March 28, 1906

Washed. The weather isn't very good in afternoon. I embroidered a sofa pillow. Papa went to town in even. Talked with Minnie Larabee and Fred. Wrote a letter to E. and went to bed. Got 7 post cards from Chas. (not sure if this is Charles her brother, or Charles Gregory her cousin in Lovington, Illinois)

Thursday, March 19, 1906

Mama and Papa drove up to Uncle Jim's. He too sick, had a stroke of paralysis (sic) and Grandma and I worked all day. In eve., Dena came over and stayed all night. In the night, grandma took sick. My, I was scared. Chas. And I got up and sat with her.

Friday, March 30, 1906

Got up really early. Grandma was no better, we phoned for Mama and Papa to come home. They got here about noon. I was glad to have them come but she got easier long towards evening. Mable and I talked to (?Cerm) and Elmer* in evening. *Elmer is kind of a mystery person, she mentions him as Elmer W. but nowhere writes his entire name.

Saturday, March 31, 1906

Worked all day, hand swept and baked and cleaned the parlor. After supper, I drove over to Cole's after Lillian to come over and stay over Sunday. We came back and drove to the store. Ate cheese and crackers, had a little fun and came home. Sat up until after 12.

Sunday, April 1, 1906

April Fools Day. Lillian and I got up early and got breakfast. Put salt in sugar bowl to catch Charles but instead Papa got hold of it and swear! I should say. Lillian and I had to leave the table. We got ready and in our new dresses went to church. Miss Morton of the Deaconess home gave a fine talk. After dinner, Lillian and I run off over to the church and went to sleep to get out of washing dishes but she left them for us, a good fool. After supper, went to church. Charles put Brick cheese in our pockets but we found it. C. took Lillian home.

Monday, April 2, 1906

Washed and tried to clean house, worked hard until I was tired and went to bed early. Got 7 post cards.

Tuesday, April 3, 1906

Ironed all morning and cleaned cook house and around the yard. Rose (Winterringer), Winnifred, Mable and I was going to prayer meeting over to Leaches but it rained. George McNear came out to stay all night, talked to Fred awhile, now I'm going to bed.

Wednesday, April 4, 1906

House cleaned, a nice day. Went to bed early.

April 5/6, 1906

No entry; missing pages

Saturday, April 7, 1906

Got up really early. We are going to have saw men. Had 8 men for dinner and supper. In afternoon it began to rain and never stopped. Gertie, Scott and Chase and I were going to Smithland for a dance but it rained. Dena came and staid for supper and all night. We sat up and talked.

Sunday, April 8, 1906

A Gloomy day, still raining. Grandma, Mama and I went to church. Holly Spring's preacher talked, not a very large crowed. It rained all afternoon. I slept. Dena came over. I helped Papa do his chores. He was sick and Charles went over to Cole's. After supper, I went to League. Just a few out, sat with Henry and he walked over home with me. Now I am writing and will go to bed.

Monday, April 9. 1906

I cleaned my room and an all day's job and cooked while Mama and Grandma cleaned yard.

Tuesday, April 10, 1906

Washed and Grandma went up to Uncle Jim's and Mama and I house cleaned.

Wednesday, April 11, 1906

Same old thing. I ironed all morning and we moved stoves and took up carpets.

Thursday, April 12, 1906

House cleaned all day and that is all!

Friday, April 13, 1906

House cleaned all day. Mr. Clift papered for us. Chas and I got to laughing and made a fool of ourselves. It rained nearly all day. I was tired out at night so went to bed early. ***Granddaughter's note.
They seem to clean the house all the time. That house must have been spotless!
Even when she was older, her house was spotlessly clean and organized.

Saturday, April 14, 1906

Worked hard all day trying to finish house cleaning and got settled for over Sunday. Anthon High School came out and played ball with Piero, 14 to 6 in favor of Piero. I was awful tired and went to bed early.

Sunday, April 15, 1906

Went to S.S. and a Beautiful Easter morning. A good crowd out, came home, started to get dinner; stove pipe fell down and soot in everything. Elmer W. called me up to tell me he was coming up. I dressed, Charles went after Lillian. Cole's came over too. We all played cards. Lillian and I beat the boys, then we strolled around. Had supper and we four went to church. Got so tired, we left, came home and sang. Played until Charles took Lillian home.

Monday, April 16, 1906

I was pretty sleepy but I washed and after dinner cleaned the parlor. After supper I went to bed real early.

Tuesday, April 17, 1906

Charles and I got ready to go to store. I sat the eggs down and an old sow got into them and ate a dozen or two. After dinner, I slept a while. Dina came over. After supper, Will D. took a load up to Carter's to prayer meeting : Nellie Pearce, Bessie (Pearce), Harry (Pearce), Mabel, Rose and Henry Winterringer and Winnefred Van Dyke. Nell and I - we had a circus. Walked up all the hills nearly never got home until 12:30 and so lame I couldn't walk.

Wednesday, April 18, 1906

Got up real early and was mighty tired. Charles helped McCluskys shell (?) and I baked all morning for the society meet with us and some came in morning and staid all day. I tried to sleep but Bessie Pearce came and I had to get up. Margaret (Yockey) called me up to tell me about a sociable at Hummel's Friday eve and Don C. was on the line. I took Mrs. Eskins home and went down to Spangler's awhile. Now I am writing letters, got one from Elmer and Chas this eve.

Thursday, April 19, 1906

Worked all day, after supper Chas. And I drove over after Lillian. We started for the dance, got as far as Scott's (O'Connor's) and they didn't intend to go because they hadn't a team so we borrowed O'Connor's carriage and all went together. Had a pretty good time but have had better. Susana, the harpist played - we had a lunch at Bert's and then came home, 3:30, when got in was cold and tired.

Friday, April 20, 1906

I was tired out, not good for nothing but I worked pretty well until after dinner then I slept. Margaret called me up and wanted us to be sure to go to the sociable. After supper we went. Mable, Nellie, Chas. Walter and I had had a good time, played games and Elmer, Fred, Margaret and I played "truth upon honor", had a circus. We went to supper with the boys. Elmer brought me home and nice and early in the morning.

Saturday, April 21, 1906

Tired again but helped do the Sat. work and after dinner slept. The great Earthquake** is causing excitement. Killed so many people and ruined homes. Mr. Miller came out last eve. and stayed over night. I went to bed real early. **San Francisco earthquake

Sunday, April 22, 1906

Went to S.S. and church. A large crowd but Margie and I sat together. After dinner Papa went to town and I rode to the corner with him and I went over to Cole's to see Lillian. We sat around and in the eve., came home. Went to church and a large crowd out; several C.H. (Climbing Hill) boys and H.S. (Holly Springs) crowd. Chas took Lillian home.

Monday, April 23, 1906

Washed and my, how the wind blew. Afternoon went to Piero and Spangler's after some things. Mable* came home with me. Dena was over, we played and sang and went to bed early. *Mable is Mable Spangler who lived near Piero. Born Nov. 1888.

Tuesday, April 24, 1906

Ironed and Mable stayed for dinner, and until about 4:00. We intended going to prayer meeting but looked so much like rain though wind has blown something awful today. Now I am going to write some letters and retire.

Wednesday, April 25, 1906

The wind is still blowing and it is hot. I am not doing anything but cook today. Elmer called me up and said we were invited out for dinner Sunday, but suppose it will rain. I received two letters, Chas and Elmer.

Thursday, April 26, 1906

Got ready and went to town. Nellie Mc. went with me and a lovely day, only windy. We had a circus, both got new hats but I just hate mine. We bummed around all day, took dinner at Bert's. After supper I went to sleep.

Friday, April 27, 1906

A lovely day, only a little cold. Didn't do much, only sewed. After dinner Dena came over and I sent my hat back. After supper it rained all night.

Saturday, April 28, 1906

Rainy and cold all day. I worked and Grandma and I finished my waist (dress?) after dinner. After supper, went to bed early.

Sunday, April 29, 1906

Went to S.S.. Elmer called up and said the roads were too bad to come up, so after dinner I staid to home. Dena, Margie and I went to church. Fred walked home with me. We had a lunch and fooled around until about 12 waiting for Chas but he didn't come so I hiked.

Monday, April 30. 1906

Rainy and cold we just fooled around.

Tuesday, May 1, 1906

Washed and not a very good day. I sewed after dinner, got four letters. Floss, Ethel, Chas and Elmer, Mable came up to prayer meeting but stopped here and we went over to Dena's. She missed the girl and had to walk home alone.

Wednesday, May 2, 1906

Ironed. A lovely day. After dinner Chas and I went to town. I got me a new hat. Stopped to McClusky's after potatoes. Came home tired out and went to bed. Got 6 postals.

Thursday, May 3, 1906

Cleaned my clothes, ready to go to Sioux City. In eve. went over to Dena's, had a bon fire. Lillian came over and staid all night wishing for it not to rain.

Friday, May 4, 1906

It sure looked like rain but we went and my, it was cold and rained all the way. Got in the city at 11:30, got dinner and started out. We had a time. Went to show in the eve, Lillian, her mother, cousin and I. The "Society Lady" by Woodwards Stock Co. Bummed around after the show.

Saturday, May 5, 1906

Got up early and Lillian and I went down town and bummed. Went home for dinner and after Mrs. Morgan and Jen went with us. We went to Matinee, "Dora Thorne". It was real good. In the evening we bummed and were invited out to a neighbor's and had a good time.

Sunday, May 6, 1906

Fooled around and started home about 11:30, Lafe * went to Morning Tide. We had a good time going home, never laughed so in my life. Got home about 3:30 and rested a while and went to church but was too tired to enjoy myself.
*Lafe is Lillian Morgan's father, Lafe Morgan.

Monday, May 7, 1906

Washed and Mama went up to see Mrs. McClusky. I sewed after dinner and staid to home after supper.

Tuesday, May 8, 1906

Ironed all morning. A nice day, only a little chilly. In eve. I went down to Mable's with Chas and Chas Everts, then M and I went to store. Chas run off and brought me home. A beautiful eve.

Wednesday, May 9, 1906

A fine day. Only good (sic) the meals and played with the kittens. In eve. practiced my new songs and wrote my diary. Got post card from E., from Sioux City and one from Mable.

Thursday, May 10, 1906

A lovely day just worked, went to bed early.

Friday, May 11, 1906

A fine day. I swept and about noon, Dena called up and wanted me to go down to Bagg's and visit while she went to Hornick, so I did. Got there just in time for dinner. Afternoon we hitched up and went to Emily Clift's and from there to the store. Elmer was all alone, he came up about nine and brought me home. We never got here until 1:30. A lovely eve, moon came up.

Saturday, May 12, 1906

Was tired out, didn't do very much. I was about sick, talked to Lillian awhile and Elmer called up. I went to bed early and doctored my throat.

Sunday, May 13, 1906

It was cloudy and trying to rain but we got ready and went to College Corners to the dedication. Grandma, Chas and I, my such a crowd. After it was over, Elmer and I drove over to Bagg's for dinner and to spend the day. In eve., went to Corners to church, was real late.

Monday, May 14, 1906

I washed in morning after dinner. Mama went to Hunts. I slept and went to bed early.

Tuesday, May 15, 1906

Ironed and mowed the lawn. After dinner I sewed. It is such cloudy weather but doesn't rain. Winnefred and I walked to prayer meeting at Pearce's. Rose and Mable, it was late when we got home. Dena came home with us.

Wednesday, May 16, 1906

Just did the house work after dinner. Went down to Mable's a little while after supper. Dena came over.

Thursday, May 17, 1906

Baked and worked all morning. Rested after dinner. Chas and I went to Piero after supper. Mable and Chas went riding and Fred and I came home. I wrote some letters and retired.

Friday, May 18, 1906

A fine Day. Dena came over. I didn't feel very well. Talked to Mable and then I went to bed.

Saturday, May 19, 1906.

Baked and did Saturday's work after dinner. Winnefred, Rose, Mrs. Yotter and I decorated the church for the programme.

Sunday, May 20, 1906

Went to S.S. and church. Margie and I practiced after dinner. I read and slept. Cora and Mr. Streets came out from Anthon and took supper also Mr. and Mrs. Bagg's. We all went to the program, I sang a solo "Face to Face". ** A large crowd and a fine evening.
**Madge often sang at church and on special occasions and continued to do so after her marriage. . She had a beautiful singing voice and was very musically talented. I have all her sheet music.

Monday, May 21, 1906

Washed and scrubbed and I started my new dress. In eve. I just read awhile and retired.

Tuesday, May 22, 1906

Ironed all morning. After dinner, sewed and Winnefred wanted me to go to prayer meeting with her at Winterringers ,so we went to Mable's then to store and up to Rose's. A crowd of about 20. Chas and Henry came up later. Elmer called me up but I wasn't at home.

Wednesday, May 23, 1906

Got ready to go to Anthon and it rained. So I didn't go. In eve, E. called me up and we talked a long time. It rained real hard. Papa sold Jack, my driving horse.

Thursday, May 24, 1906

Same old thing, work. After supper Dena and I went to prayer meeting Spangler's, then went to store. I tended switch, talked with Margaret. There were a crowd of kids. Bessie, Mable, Dena, Fred, Henry, Harry, Chas, Ed, Chas and I. We had a little fun. Henry walked home with me. Chas run off from Dena.

Friday, May 25, 1906

A fine day, but after dinner it cloud up. Chas, Lillian and I were to go to Anthon to a dance but it rained and a regular cyclone blew the German City church all to pieces and did a great deal of damage. It cleared off and we kids went, also Gertie and Scott but a small crowd and another storm came up and so we all went home. We went down to Bert's, ate beans and then Gertie's. Lillian and I staid at Barto's. All slept in one bed, had fun. Lillian got crazy. Got letter and postal.

Saturday, May 26, 1906

I got up real early and helped Hazel get breakfast and we did our shopping. Made the boys a treat. Bought each other a big straw hat to wear home for we had nothing but scarfs. After dinner I baked, mowed the lawn. There was a meeting at the church but I didn't go.

Sunday, May 27, 1906

Gloomy and so very cold. Went to church. They are holding Convention here. Mrs. Mather preached and she was fine, had meeting in afternoon but I didn't go. About five, Elmer and Harry Stell came up and we all went over to Cole's and got Lillian. Came back home, had supper and fooled around until when we went to church. Had to sit on the front seat. Came back and had some music. (Truth) Harry took Lillian home. Elmer and I sat by the fire and waited. I received a dandy Post Album from E. My, I am proud of it. Mapleton and Peiro played ball, 6 -10 Piero winning.

Monday, 28, 1906

Washed, I felt pretty tired. Took a nap. The Ludwig girls were here for plants. I practiced awhile, talked with the girls about going to the ballgame, wrote awhile and retired.

Tuesday, May 29, 1906.

Ironed all morning and took a nap, it rained after supper so I staid to home and went to bed.

Wednesday, May 30, 1906

Decoration Day! Mary called me up and wanted me to go over to Climbing Hill with Fred, Mable, Chas and she, so I got ready and we started about 12:00. They had a real nice program in church, then marched to decorate the graves. Mabel and I were with Elmer and Harry awhile. "James" (sic) got up a party and invited us to stay. E. couldn't on account of his niece but we all staid, had lunch and then went to party. I was with Harry, Mable and Oscar. Never got home until 2:00. I staid with Mable, Margaret was there, so piled in with her.

Thursday, May 31, 1906

Got up quite early and after breakfast I went home but didn't do very much, only slept and went to bed early in eve.

Friday, June 1, 1906

A fine day, worked, swept the house and baked. Lillian came over after school and after supper Chas, Lillian and I walked over the store. Margaret and Mable were coming over. We went after butter. Harry took his horse and we drove over to Cole's after Lillian's coat. Chas, M. and M. came up and we had music.

Saturday, June 2, 1906

Lillian and I got up real early and just more than rustled to get ready to go to ball game. Six of we girls went in a double; Margaret Yockey, Dena, Mabel, Lillian, Setta (sic) and I. Had a good time, but Piero got beat 5 to 6. After the game we were invited to Chas. Deist's for supper. Then we got ready and went walking until the sociable. Harry S. and I went for a drive. Oscar, Harry and Chas took all we girls to supper. They had a program and had put me in for a solo but I was excused. We started home about 12:30. They danced awhile. I drove home and the back seat fell off and we had a terrible time but fun, I should say.

Sunday, June 3, 1906

Lillian and I didn't get up until 8:30 and we were the only ones that didn't go to church. Myrtle, Nellie, Mable, Minnie, Henry came over. We sang and I took some pictures. Lillian and I slept all after noon. Went to church in evening. Oscar H. and I went riding. Came nearly going to Holly Springs, went to League. Afterwards, Harry Stell, Mr. Bowmount, Henry, Chas, Oscar, Mabel, Dena, Lillian and I came over to our house. Sang and played for a long time, had a jolly time.

Monday, June 4, 1906

Washed and I rained all day. Mrs. McClusky got word her father was dead. She and Mr. were down looking at the lot in cemetery. I was sick, laid down after dinner. I got a letter from Chas Gregory- after supper, went to bed real early.

Tuesday, June 5, 1906

A lovely day. The folks went to town to make arrangements for funeral. Grandma and I all alone. Chas drove to the store. I rode back with Harry Pearce and Mable. Rose (Winterringer), Dena, Chas, Harry and I went to prayer meeting at Clift's.

Wednesday, June 6, 1906

A lovely day. Did up the work. Mama and Papa went to funeral. Grandma and I just went to the grave yard. Mable and Rose came up after supper. Dena and I went down to the store.

Thursday, June 7, 1906

Didn't do any thing but house work. Went to bed early.

Friday, June 8, 1906.

Got an invitation to a party at Bud Repples in honor of Maud Foster but we didn't go. I was over to Dena's for a little while.

Saturday, June 9, 1906

Mama and Papa went up to Uncle Jim's so we were left alone. Lillian came over and we picked strawberries and after supper went to store. Came back with Harry and he, Chas, Lillian and I went to meeting convention, SS, and came home. I went to bed.

Sunday, June 10, 1906

Got up late but flew around and Lillian picked over berries while I did up the work. Got ready and went to church. A large crowed out. Came home and the boys had eaten our berries, mad, I guess. After dinner we slept, then to church. Henry (Winterringer) brought me home and Chas and Lillian set in hammock. Henry and I on sofa pillows. Lillian went over to Cole's.

Monday, June 11, 1906

Washed and scrubbed.

Tuesday, June 12, 1906

Worked all day. Picked strawberries in afternoon, in eve. I went to bed early. A prayer meeting at Diest's but I've insulted someone, so we wouldn't go.

Wednesday, June 13, 1906

Ironed after dinner. Went down to Mable's and store. After dinner Papa told me, I could go to Kentucky. After supper I got ready for the party at Clark's. Lillian, Chas and I went. Oscar took L. home and Elmer took me. Chas took Margie. Had a fine time. E and I were mad, but made up.

Thursday, June 14, 1906

Tired, I was sure, but my Mama entertained the "Women's Club" from Anthon to dinner and lunch, so I had to get up early and help. I took the toothache really early and it never stopped. Chas and I drove in town. Dr. couldn't fix it but put something on it. We were invited up to Miller's for supper, went and didn't get back until real late. Chas had a date with Lillian so I walked from cemetery and let him go to Cole's. They came over awhile as Lillian is going home, her school is out.

Friday, June 15, 1906

A dandy. Mrs. Sheffield staid after the picnic and I helped entertain her. After supper Chas and I drove down to Mt. Olivet to a sociable. Margaret, Chas, Elmer and I had a good little time but rather tame, came home early.

Saturday, June 16, 1906

A very hot day. Mama took Mrs. Sheffield home. I didn't do very much it was so very warm. Hazel Barto and Glen came home with Mama after supper. The kids and I walked to store but did not stay long.

Sunday, June 17, 1906

Hot, I should say and dusty. But Elmer came up at 10:00. We drove up to Anthon. Were invited to Miller's for dinner; had a jolly time singing and playing, eating and in the afternoon we were out in an Auto. A dust storm came up, my, it was bad. Mr. M., Dora and I run for the cave. After it was all over, E and I started home but got caught in a rain. Got home before it was very bad. Dena was there and we had a time shaking her. Elmer staid all night, didn't go home until morning.

Monday, June 18, 1906

Still raining but after breakfast, he went home and I washed and ironed. I packed my trunk ready to start for Kentucky.

The Kentucky Visit
...Madge's diary continues!

Note: This trip is the highlight of Madge's summer. Traveling a great distance by train and steamboat, staying in hotels , visiting with wealthy Overstreet relatives, going to parties makes for an exciting experience for a small town Iowa girl. Several entries talk about her experience with the Black citizens living in the Lagrange, Ky, area and I hope no one will be offended by her comments. I never heard her say a bad word about any race or creed; if anything she was fascinated by the differences in almost a poetic way. She may be fearful of them at first in Lagrange, but later she attends a Black church service. I have left her comments in because it is history and this the way people talked and thought in those days.

Tuesday, June 19, 1906

Got up real early, it had cleared off nicely. Chas took me in to town and I left on the 10:25 for Onawa. Dr. Westwood rode as far as Smithland. I waited in Onawa from 11 until 1: 18 and got into Omaha at 3:15. Met a dandy girl from Des Moines. I waited there until 6:30, sent some cards. It is a pretty little city. I traveled all night.

Wednesday, June 10, 1906

Arrived in St. Louis about 10 AM and staid until 12. Had breakfast in café at depot. Left in a parlor car for Louisville, Ky. Arrived there at 7:30 PM. Telephoned to Mary (an aunt, Mary Overstreet Manby). I had to stay there until 11, then I left for La Grange. My, I was tired. Myrtle was there and I talked but retired at once.

Thursday, June 21, 1906

I was tired out but Myrtle and I dressed and went down to see Mary's mother. Mary had Miss Demond, Daisy Bell and Bessie Grand from Evanston and I for luncheon. After supper Beckham* brought a couple girls, Miss Waide, his girl, Miss Berry, Sam's girl, and Dr. Cox. We listened to the grammaphone until quite late. *Beckham Overstreet is her cousin, a lawyer in La Grange.

Friday, June 22, 1906

I visited the jail (apparently there was or is a big jail in Lagrange) wrote some letters and cards. After dinner, took a nap. After supper, Myrtle, Mary, Beckham and I went over to Mrs. Nowells to spend the eve. Played and sang and had a jolly time.

Saturday, June 23, 1906

Read, worked a little. Mrs. Nowell came by and brought our mail. I got two postals from Charles Gregory (her cousin in Illinois). After dinner it rained. I took a bath and Beckham came over. We went down to Mrs. Nowell's. Sang some, then went walking. Visited the cemetery and got caught in the rain. After supper, we all went over to Nowell's for some music. Beckham and I went down town to the soda fountain, then strolled around.

Sunday, June 24, 1906

Got up rather late. Helped Mary ( Manby) with the work. I then dressed for church. Beckham took me to the Baptist. Only short services as the regular minister's child died so a friend filled the pulpit. We then walked down to Cousin Anna Hall's for dinner. Had a lovely dinner. There was Uncle Dan, Cousin Anna, Jim, Sally, Blaine, Mary, Will, Beckham, Millie (Beckham's sister) and all the children. After dinner, we all sat around and talked, then went home. After supper, Beckham and I went over to Nowell's.

Monday, June 25, 1906

Staid at home. Took a nap and sewed in the afternoon. Beckham and Miss Waide and I took a drive. Had such a pleasant time. Picked roses and daisies. We all staid at home in eve. All went down to Cousin Blaine Overstreet's for dinner. A large crowd. Had a lovely dinner, visited and met a great many new relatives. Then we came up to town after supper. Beckham came up and we called on Miss Nellie Waide. Played, sang and danced. Spent a very pleasant evening. Came home early. B. came in and staid for awhile.

Wednesday, June 27, 1906

Went down to Cousin Kate Barrackman's for dinner; a lovely time. Came home about four, took a walk with Mrs. Nowell, then I ironed and after supper Beckham came up. I sewed and he wrote. We staid at home.

June 28, 1906

Started for Midway and waited there 3 hours. We walked out to an old spring, got a drink and lay on the grass awhile to pass the time. Then went up town and had dinner. Left there about 2:30, arrived in Versailles. Cousin Ella met us in a carriage. We were so tired. Found all and had a lovely visit with them.

Friday, June 29, 1906

We all got ready to go on our fish fry. Started at 8 and drove 6 miles. They unpacked the grub, went boat riding for awhile, got two larger fish, then came back. The men built a place of rocks to fry out fish and cook corn bread and coffee. We then had dinner and it was great. Had so many good things. After dinner, Mr. Hawk's son took the Misses McWilliams, Young, McBrien and I for a ride. Met a young man from Tyrone, took us for a ride in his gasoline launch. A crowd from Lawrenceburg, we went out in a steamer for a ride. We got home at 5 and well pleased with the day.

Saturday, June 30, 1906

Was so tired and slept so good. Porter ordered the carriage and Ella, Myrtle, Pearl and I went driving. Took in the city of Versailles, Cleveland Orphans Home and visited a very old building. It was formally a toll gate. We drove until 7, then came in, ate supper then drove the horse to the barn. Went to the soda fountain but the negroes (sic) are so thick on Sat. eve, its not safe to be out. We went in early.

Sunday, July 1, 1906

A beautiful morning, we sat out in front and watched the colored people go to a Basket meeting at Mortonville. It was a treat to me. All sizes and shades. Cousin Porter ordered a carriage and we drove to the carline and went to Livingston (?). Had a fine ride, came back at four, then had some callers: Mrs. Malaze and Maud Young. Went walking and retired early.

Monday, July 2, 1906

They called us at 5:30. We then got ready to take a ride to Midway. The carriage came up at 7:00 and we had such a lovely drive along the Frankfort pike. Left there at 9:40 for Lagrange. Arrived in Lagrange at 11:00 and Mary was very much surprised to see us. Miss Mona King and Charlie's wife were there. After dinner, we rested and later dressed and went down town to Mrs. Natters. Played awhile, then all went up to Nowell's. Had a nice time playing, dancing and singing. Beckham and Mr. Williams walked home with Nora and I, and came in awhile. We ran the grammaphone and it rained.

Tuesday, July 3, 1906

Nora and I bummed all day. Took Myrtle to the train, she went to Brownsville. Walked around in eve., went in to Mrs. Netters and played. A couple of fellows followed us and asked us to walk but we told them we preferred them to call if they wished to meet us.

Wednesday, July 4, 1906

The first fourth (4th of July) that I staid at home, but nothing doing here. Cousin Will's mother will take dinner with us. Nora and I bummed around and after supper, Cousin John Russell came in his fine rig and took me for a drive through the kindness of Beckham and then Mary and I went over to Nowell's and played awhile.

Thursday, July 5, 1906

Nora staid down to Cousin Sallie's, Mary and I baked and prepared company dinner. Thought cousin Lula was coming but she didn't. Maud, Nora, Bettie S. came up. Maud went home and Nora went down to Betty's. I didn't want to go for I had the blues. I wish I was home. Mrs. W. came over and wanted me to go down town to fountain. Then we had callers; Mrs. Moss and little on. Retired but blue as I was. Letter from Chas and Lillian.

Friday, July 6, 1906

A lovely morning. Mary and I went down town and to Bettie's and Cousin S. came home and got dinner. After we dressed up and called on Myrtie Smith and Lottie De Moss, rain came up. We went down to Mrs. Nutter's. Nora, Bettie and I danced and sang. Mr. Yeager was there. Beckham was here for supper. Went home to entertain Nora. She got mad and wouldn't stay here. B and M came up a little while. I wrote letters and went to bed. Got a letter from home.

Saturday, July 7, 1906

Bettie and Nora came up after dinner. We bummed around. I got my films to take some pictures* After supper, Beckham came up. He and I went down to Bettie's and Mr. Yeager was there. We danced and sang, then B and I went up to fountain. Walked around and went home. B. staid until 11 - Nora got angry at B.

* Madge loved photography all her life and we regret that we only have a few pictures from this visit to Kentucky.

Sunday, July 8, 1906

Beckham came up at 11 and we went to the Baptist church to hear Dr. Harvey. Came home, had dinner, after which Nora King, Beckham and I drove to West Port, on the Ohio River. Took some pictures, had a dandy ride. Came back about 4. After supper, Mary, Will and I went to church, heard Staily preach.

Monday, July 9, 1906

Getting ready for the party. Beckham and I wrote invitations all morning and cleaned the house. After dinner we developed pictures before supper. We went down and called on Miss Goldsboro. After supper Miss Nellie Goldsboro, Miss Nora King, Bettie Smith, Beckham, Dr Cox and I were down to Smith's. Danced, sang and had a jolly time, then went to take Miss Nellie home.

Tuesday, July 10, 1906

Worked to get ready for the party after dinner. Beckham and I went down to drug store and finished pictures. Came back and then arranged chairs and lanterns. At 8 the crowd gathered and a good jolly bunch. We played everything, then all went to the dining room for refreshments. It was so pretty. I went to supper with Mr. Brown. At 11 they all went home.

Wednesday, July 11, 1906

Tired out. Myrtle was here getting ready to leave. Beckham and I went out to take pictures down to the spring and went to Josephine Berry's. She went with us and we went to Coontown.. Had a picnic. Came up to J.B.'s for a little time. Got home for dinner. After supper Beckham came up and we walked around down to the fountain.

Thursday, July 12, 1906

A fine day. I sat around all morning. Mary and I only did up the work. After dinner, went down to Bettie's, played and sang. Came back and the Misses Humes called on Nora and I. Later we went to train with Myrtle. I came back with Bettie and Nora. Then I finished pictures. After Beckham came up, we went over to Mrs. Nowell's for music.

Friday, July 13, 1906

A hot day. Miss Nellie G and Josephine Berry called on me. Nellie and I went down to soda fountain. Beckham came in sick, we jollied him and he went out and went home with me and his fever was high. We went over to Nowell's and spent the eve, then walked around.

Saturday, July 14, 1906

Mrs. Overstreet (Beckham's mother). was upset. Beckham was worse. I went down and staid awhile after dinner. Went back again, got 11 letters from C.A.G. (Charles Andrew Gregory) and sure got roasted. Nora was there, went home. Mary, Nell and I went down. Nora and I bummed around and I staid all night there.

Sunday, July 15, 1906

Got up early. Beckham was no better. I went home and got ready for church. Nora came up and we went to Baptist. Willie G. and Ethel White were with us. I slipped on a dog under the seat and yell! I guess. We went to Mary's for dinner. After dinner, started out to take some pictures but too hot. John Dowden, Alva Pruett, Lynden P. and Sam came up and took some pictures, played the grammaphone. Then Bettie, Nora and I took a walk. Later, Alva P. went with me. We went to Negro church and had a dandy time. Laugh, I guess. We went down to Betties, had lunch. Roy and Alva took Nora and I home.

Monday, July 16, 1906

Raining hard. Nora went down home to get her suit case packed. I went down later after dinner. Mrs. N, Mary and I went down town. Bettie and I took Nora to train. Marion Carlin, Joy Yager, Earl Leffler and we had a circus waiting.

Tuesday, July 17, 1906

Came back from Mrs. Nowell's and went down to Cousin Sallies. B was not so well. I staid there all morning. After dinner, Bettie and I went out and took snap shots of coons, had a circus. Then finished them. Came up to Mary's and ate a lunch. After supper we went down to see Beckham and he was so sick, poor boy. I felt so sorry.

Wednesday, July 18, 1906

Ironed all morning, washed my hair. Afternoon, Bettie came up. We dressed up in Sam's clothes and Mary took our pictures, then we raged out in our white and went calling on Josephine Berry. Misses Curn's and Willie Goldsboro, and Ethel White from Louisville, went to the depot to meet Bettie's aunt. I then went down to see B. Doctor thought he was better. After supper, Bettie and I run around. "Dearie" up to fountain.

Thursday, July 19, 1906

Went down to sit with Beckham until after dinner over to Bettie's. Had cream, came home and went to sleep. Dressed in eve. and Myrtle Tucker, Bettie and I bummed until late at the fountain. Got a letter from Chas.

Friday, July 20, 1906

Went over to Mrs. Nowell's and washed, then cam back for dinner. After I dressed and went down to drug store to order some supplies, met Mr. Craw. He treated me to a soda. Met Myrtle Tucker. She wanted me to go play tennis. I did, had a lovely time. Later I dressed and walked down to see Campbell and Beckham. Both sick. Bettie and I strolled around. After supper, Ed Manby came up from Louisville and he and I went down to Bettie's, also George Hall. Spent a very quiet eve, caught in rain.

Sunday, July 22, 1906

Printed pictures all morning. Mary was sick. I did up the work after dinner, dressed and went down to see B. He was better. Bettie and I ran around, after lunch we went to church, all alone.

JULY 23 AND 24TH

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Wednesday, July 25, 1906

Ironed all a.m. and after dinner Cousin Blaine and I drove over to Lula's. 12 miles to Todd's Point. Had a lovely time, talked and Mr. Beatty came home late. I enjoyed the ride so much, over the rocks.

Thursday, July 26, 1906

Got up real early as Mr. B. had to go away. I took some pictures. We started home at 8, picked some blackberries and I took some snaps. Got home at 10:30. I went up to Mary's after dinner and slept. I was so tired. I dressed up later in eve and Bettie, Myrtle and I bummed. After supper, Misses Bucy (sic) came down and went to Betties then Mr. Dowden, Martha and I walked over to fountain and May's. Bettie with with two others.

JULY 27, 1906

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Saturday, July 28, 1906

Cousin Blaine took me out to Cousin John Overstreet's to take dinner. Had a real nice time. Caught in rain coming home. After supper Mary and I walked around and went down to Nutter's. Went back and when Nell came home from church, we all went down town. I met George Hale and Myrtle I. He wanted us to go after some roses and then to Soda Fountain. He came up and spent the eve. Got three letters from Mama, Chas and Elmer.

Sunday, July 29, 1906

Just fooled. Took a bath and after dinner dressed and went down to go to Overstreet's then to Mrs. Smith's. Myrtle and I took a walk then Campbell came up and we had a circus. After supper, Campbell and I walked around, took in the fountain twice. A lovely evening and we had a nice visit.

Monday, July 30, 1906

Walked around and took pictures. Got a letter from Chas and papers from home. After dinner Myrtle Tucker and I walked out the pond and Sulphur Springs. I wasn't feeling very well so I went home and later Bettie and I run around. After Supper, Sam gave us tickets and we went to show, "Ten Nights in the Bar Room". It was bum but we had fun. George Hall took us in to the soda fountain and then we took B. home. He came up and staid awhile and coaxed me to stay another week.

Tuesday, July 31, 1906

Ironed, got a letter from Chas. Bettie and I walked down to Anita Springs. A beautiful place, took some pictures.

AUGUST 1 AND 2, 1906

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Friday, August 3, 1906

Got up real early and I went over to Cousin Blaine's, Smith's and different places and bid them goodbye. Cousin Nell Manby and Campbell went to Louisville. I hated to leave for I had a fine time. We reached Mrs. Manby's for dinner after Nell and I took in the city. In evening, Nell went home and I staid all night. Mrs. Manby invited Stanton Ford over to spend the eve. We sang and played and went car riding. I came back and went to ice cream parlor. He was a fine fellow. "Lonely" "Is that so". ** Sure enough. **These were old songs popular to sing.

Saturday, August 4, 1906

Mr. Ford came in to bid me goodbye. At 10:00 Claude Manby took me to the train and I left at 12 for Cairo, Ill. A dirty trip; it was so warm. I reached there at 7:00. Met some nice people on the train. I stopped at Planter's Hotel and had to stay there until Sunday. At 6:30 I took in the city. Had a nice time.

Sunday, August 5, 1906

Bummed around. It is about 18,000 population. At 5:30 I took the boat for St. Louis. Had a circus. We danced and had a jolly time. Never went to bed until 12:30. We landed about 12 at a placed called Cape Girardeau and unloaded freight. Rode all night. I bunked with a woman from St. Louis. Slept fine.

Monday, August 6, 1906

Rode all day on boat "Ferd Herold". It rained. We danced after dinner. Had supper on the boat and got into St. Louis at 1:30 p.m. I took a cab up to the Union station and took a sleeper out for Omaha at 8:00. Sent some postals and when I started, I slept nearly all the way. Had breakfast on the train and got off in Omaha at 7:30 a.m. Bummed around the city and left there at 3:50 for Onawa.

Tuesday, August 7, 1906

Was in Omaha all day and went to Onawa in eve. Staid all night at the Mona House.

Wednesday, August 8, 1906

Walked around. Sent some postals and met a friend, Vern Fairchild. We sat in the parlor and talked. I left on the 12:30 train for Anthon. Papa was there to meet me. I lost my watch coming home but found it. I talked a blue streak telling them about my trip was grand. In the eve. Gertie and Scott came down and we went to Camp meeting over in the grove.

Thursday, August 9, 1906

I was awful tired but I washed and slept all afternoon. In the evening we went to camp meeting. Henry Winterringer came home with me and I told the kids all about my trip the last night of the meeting.

The Diary of Madge Overstreet, 1906, Anthon, Iowa, Continued.
No Entries until August 29.

Wednesday, August 29, 1906

Got up early. Chas and I drove in town and Cora and I went to Correctionville to street fair. Went to the fair grounds and saw the ball game. Had supper at the restaurant. Bum! Had a great time after supper. Went to the dance, it was grand. Lady orchestra. Staid at Edna Card's all night.

Thursday, August 30, 1906

Had breakfast and got ready and went to town. Matt Crary was with us. Took in the grounds' ball game. Moville and Correctionville. Gertie and Scott came up then. Gertie and I bummed. Went to Finn's and cleaned up for the dance. Went up and had a dandy time. Came home at 2 in an auto from Correctionville. Henry, Harry, Scott, Chas, Gertie and I had a nice ride and drove from there down. Got home at 5:00.
No Entries until.

Wednesday September 5, 1906

Worked in the morning. Mama went into town with Clark's. Chas and I drove in after dinner. Lillian and I bummed around, took in the ball game. Hornick and Kingsley - 4 - 5 in favor of Kingsley. After supper, Erroll, Chas, Lillian and I bummed. Went to the dance but it was punk, so came home early. I rode home with Oscar Hamersla. Lovely moonlit night.

Saturday, September 8, 1906

Baked and did up the Saturday's work. Chas had a run-away with the mules. Nearly scared us to pieces. Chas went to Oto and Papa went to Anthon. Mama and I swept the church and slept.

Sunday, September 9, 1906

Got up early, it was rainy but it cleared off and I drove over to Coles and Lillian and I went over to Giffordville to Camp meeting. Took lunch and had a gay time. Went to Foster's, then went to afternoon meeting. Elmer was there. We went to evening meeting after supper. Harry Stell and Elmer walked me over to the store and hitched up our horse. I had a nice little accident going over. We got home at 12:00. Lillian staid with me.

Monday September 10, 1906

Washed, baked. After dinner I slept for I was tired. Chas went up to Mc Cluskey's after supper and I went to bed.

Tuesday, September 11, 1906

Ironed all morning. After dinner, I drove down to the store and back. Canned tomatoes after supper then practiced and retired early.

Wednesday, September 12, 1906

All alone. Mama and Chas got up real early and drove to the City to attend fair. Papa is out in the field, grandma up to Uncle Bob's and I am lonely. It is raining real hard and very cool.

No entries until October 31, 1906

Granddaughter's note: Not sure why the gap. There are pages torn out of the diary and some just not written in. There also seems to be a little change in her moods and social life from here on out. She talks about people coming to talk to her and being laughed at. We know at some point, perhaps during these blank dates, that Madge eloped with a young man and upset both families who had the marriage annulled. None of us in the family ever knew his name. She never mentions "Elmer W." again in the diary and I'm suspicious that he is the young man she eloped with. I've had no luck determining his last name but have narrowed it down to two "Elmer W.'s who lived in the area. I've gathered he did not live in the Anthon area as she talks about him being unable to come to various things because of weather and I could not find any Elmer W. the right age in any census records, during that time period, that lived in Woodbury County. I did find an Elmer Wilt and Elmer Ward who would have been about the right age and who lived in the neighboring counties of Ida and Monona. Elmer Wilt lived in Lake, Iowa, and Elmer Ward lived in Corwin, Iowa. If anyone knows anything about these two men, I would love to hear from you.


Wednesday, October 31, 1906

Margie and I went over to Jennies, getting ready for the party. Lillian Morgan, Mary Clark, Mable Spangler, Margie McClusky and Nellie and I had a dandy time. Pumpkin lights and ghosts - 75 guests. We girls had ghost's supper upstairs. Harry Pearce brought me home. Got a letter that Harry Kearney (her cousin in Lovington, Illinois) and Lillie Cheever were married this eve.

Thursday, November 1, 1906

Went to prayer meeting. Winnefred Clift came down to see me.

Saturday November 3, 1906

Cleaned the dining room and kitchen.

Sunday, November 4, 1906

Staid to home. My, it was lonesome. Henry Winterringer took dinner with Chas. After supper, Mable came and we went to church. Not a large crowd out.

Monday, November 5, 1906

Washed and worked all day. Intended to go to Oto to a party but didn't.

Tuesday, November 6, 1906

Worked, ironed all morning. In evening, went to prayer meeting. Clary wanted to see me a minute. The kids laughed at me. Election Day at Center School. Chas was clerk, never got home until morning.

Wednesday, November 7, 1906

Staid to home.

Thursday, November 8, 1906

Mable came up and after supper we went to prayer meeting.

Friday, November 9, 1906

Just staid to home and worked.

Saturday, November 10, 1906

Papa and Mama went to town. Grandma and I all alone. I went down to Piero in evening. Harry and I intended to go to Holly Springs but Chas and Lillian wouldn't go.

Sunday, November 11, 1906

Went to S.S.. Mable came home with me. We went to College Corners in afternoon and in the evening went over here. It was cold and tried snow. I came home from church sick. Felt awful bad.

Monday, November 12, 1906

I was sick all day. Mama washed. I got three post cards and a long letter from Jake. I wrote to Harry C., Chas Gregory and Essie.

Tuesday, November 13, 1906

Staid to home and worked on my sofa pillows.

Wednesday, November 14, 1906

Grandma is making me a new waist.

Thursday, November 15, 1906

Staid to home. After supper Mable came up. We went to the minister's to prayer meeting.

Saturday, November 17, 1906

Did up the work. Grandma sewed and Mama went to give her music lessons. Lillian came over. Fred (McNear) came over for supper. Lillian and I went to store after supper. Had a time with our horse. Then went to groom's after Mama and nearly froze, but went to be early.

Sunday, November 18, 1906

Went to S.S. and church. After dinner, Lillian and I went upstairs and told stories, read and slept. Folks went to Curtains to spend eve. and Chas, Lillian and I went to League.

Monday, November 19, 1906

Washed and sewed all day. Staid to home in eve.

Tuesday, November 20, 1906

Same old thing! My, I get lonesome but thankful for the many blessings.

Wednesday, November 21, 1906

Society met here. I got dinner for them. Sewed carpet rags. Nellie and Margie came down. We had a good time. After supper. brother and I walked down to Mable's. Played icarem and had a good time.

Thursday, November 22, 1906

The folks went to the city and I did the work. Girls came down and we went to prayer meeting in the church.

Friday, November 23, 1906

A lovely day. I worked. Mable and I drove to Oto in afternoon. Folks got home in evening and now I am writing and will retire at once.

Sunday, December 2, 1906

I was out to church. Rev. Johnson spoke. Kane's came out spend Sunday. We had a jolly time. I went to league in eve. with Mable Spangler.

Monday, December 3, 1906

Mrs. Kane wanted me to go home with her and take part in a Queen Ester Cantata, so I did. After lunch we went to church to practice but they decided not to try and to give the cantata after Christmas.

Wednesday, December 5, 1906

I was in the dentist chair, nearly having some work done. In evening I was invited to go up to Barto's for supper and all night. Met Frank W. and he wanted a date with me. We made candy and had music and a good time.

Thursday, December 6, 1906

Mrs. Barto and I sewed all day. I made Xmas presents. Hazel and I went to T. O. (?) after my music. Frank W. walked home with us and wanted to come back.

Friday, December 7, 1906

Sewed all day and visited in the store with May. In evening Frank came down and spent the evening. We had a jolly good time talking over old times.

Saturday, December 8, 1906

Papa came after me and we went home.

Sunday, December 9, 1906

Went to Sunday School and in the afternoon, I went down and took dinner with Mable and to see her new piano (Hamilton).

Sunday, December 16, 1906

Went to Sunday School. After dinner drove to Mable's and we went down to Mt. Olivet to church. Cold, just dreadful. Harry Pearce came home with us and Chas. drove his horse home. He came up with me and walked back. Came in awhile.

Wednesday, December 19, 1906

I drove up to Gertie's and we went to town. Chas came home from Chicago and brought me a lovely $15 fur. We came home in the afternoon.

Thursday, December 20, 1906

Mable came up and took her lesson and after supper, Harry, Chas, Mable and I went skating. Afterwards we got lunch at store and went up to Mable's and ate.

Sunday, December 22, 1906

I was all alone. Mama giving lessons, Papa and Charles to town. I did up the work and walked down to Mable's and we went to the store. I rode back with Chas Sheffield. Staid to home, in evening, just Mama and I.

Sunday, December 23, 1906

Went to Sunday School. Presiding Elder spoke. Came home and after dinner Chas and I drove up to McClusky's to spend afternoon. Had a jolly time. After dinner, Nellie, Walter, Margie, Chas. and I drove to Olivet to church revival meeting. A large crowd.

Monday, December 24, 1906

Staid to home. I got a lovely scarf, hat pin, plate, bon bon dish and two pictures.

Tuesday, December 25, 1906

Xmas day. Mama and Papa went in to Meyers to take dinner. George Thewing (sic), Chas S. took Mable and I down to Brestles and we all went in a wagon to Holly Springs Lake to skate. Came back to Egger's with George and Chas. Had supper and spent the evening. Had a nice time and fun coming home. George brought me home.

Wednesday, December 26, 1906

I helped decorate the church for Mrs. Palmer's funeral. I sang in the choir. Harry was over for dinner. In evening, Harry and I went to church. Not a very large crowd.

Thursday, December 27, 1906

I was pretty sleepy after dinner. Got ready. Chas and I went up to Gertie O' Connor's for supper and we all went to the dance at Shallowell's. Played and we came back. I staid all night with them. A beautiful night. Gertie and I drove the miller and the boys the horse.

Friday, December 28, 1906

Never got up until ten o'clock. Had breakfast and came home. Mighty tired and sleepy. Think I shall retire so I can rest.

Saturday, December 29, 1906

Worked all day. Mama went to give lessons. Lela and I done the work. In evening we intended to go to Oto but it began to rain so we staid to home.

Sunday, December 30, 1906

Rained all day. Nelle, Addie McClusky, Lela Meyers and I were the only ones who went to church so we didn't have anyone. After dinner I wrote letters. In evening we played cards and retired early. There wasn't any church.

Monday, December 31, 1906

Lela Meyers is still here and she and I washed after dinner. She walked to Piero and I worked on my sofa pillow. In evening we went down to Mable's had a "watch party". Joe Wendel, Henry Winterringer, Chas and Lela Meyers, Mable Spangler and I popped corn, made candy, played, sang, played flinch and checkers and watched the good old year out. Wished all a Happy New Year and came home, being thankful for the blessings gone by.
Last Entry

This ends the DIARY OF MADGE OVERSTREET.

Meet our contributor Mary Haunreiter:

My parents were Marvel Pearce Bruce, daughter of Madge and Harry Pearce, and Chet R. Bruce. My grandparents left the Anthon area around 1909 and settled near Hot Springs, SD. My mother was born in Hot Springs and grew up in that area. My father was born in Hartford, SD, but his family moved to Hot Springs shortly after his birth. My mother was an only child and her early years were spent going to Indian day schools on the Reservation.
Frank and Melissa Overstreet left Anthon at the same time and also settled in the Hot Springs area. My mother lived with her grandparents after the age of about 12 in order to attend public schools in town. My parents were both teachers but in the mid-thirties my father became an educational advisor for the CCC camps in South Dakota. My brother was born in Pierre, SD while my father was setting up a high school program there. When the CCC's disbanded my father joined the American Red Cross and I was born in 1944, in Casper, Wyoming, while he was training at a military base there. We lived for a short time back in South Dakota and then began our many years of living from military base to military base. Our last on base post was at Eielson AFB near Fairbanks, Alaska. Alaska was not a state yet. My mother, Marvel, taught school up there and we loved Alaska. In 1953 we moved back to the states, to be near my grandparents, Harry and Madge Pearce, who by this time owned a cattle and chicken ranch near Seattle.

Grandmother's Fur - Still in good condition in 2006! The fur my grandmother is wearing in the 1906 photograph was given to her by her brother - in the other photograph that is me and my grandmother about 1953. We were staying with my grandparents while waiting for orders to be transferred to Alaska. I was having a really boring day and my grandmother called me into the large guest room where she brought down a black suitcase from the closet. I loved to play dressup and when she opened that suitcase I couldn't believe what was in it. Old purses, hats, gloves and a fur stole! So, she dressed me up - with the fur and her gloves along with a dress from my dress-up clothes box. She loved to take photographs and she ran and got my brother to take a photograph of me but instead he took a photo of the two of us. It was one of the best days I ever had with my grandmother. I still have that fur and it is in as perfect a condition as the day in 1906 when her brother bought it for her.

I finished school in Edmonds, WA and married Steve Haunreiter, a high school classmate. I attended Washington State University, Everett Community College and recieved a Secretarial Studies degree. My husband, Steve, graduated from the University of Washington as a Chemical Engineer and we moved to Camas, Washington - near Portland, Oregon to begin married life and our family.
We will celebrate our 41st wedding anniversary this coming summer. We have three sons - Kurt, Erik and Bruce. Camas has been great place to live and raise a family. Around 1983, our son Kurt made us aware of a group of Vietnamese brothers living together in an old house in Camas. We had been giving one of the older brothers rides to soccer games but learned that the Mary Haunreiter and husband Steve - Washington state.very oldest brother was 21 and trying to take care of his six younger brothers; their mother had died in Vietnam and their father was in a re-education camp there. A friend and I went in to help out this young family and to make a long story short - my husband and I ended up taking legal custody of the five youngest brothers who ranged in age from five to 16. Later we learned that they had left a brain injured sister behind and when she was 12 we began paper work to bring her to the United States. It took us ten years to bring her here and she is still with us. I have been working as an educational para-educator at Camas High School for almost 24 years, in the Special Education department. All our boys are grown now and all but one is married. They have all graduated from college and almost all went on to earn advanced degrees - their occupations range from engineers to an occupational therapist to an environmentalist. There were some tough years but rewarding and fun years raising our huge family. We now have 12 beautiful grandchildren and our home on the Little Washougal river is full to the rafters on holidays and special occasions. We are blessed. We live in the middle of 40 wooden acres in a home built primarily by us and our family. My husband recently retired and I probably will follow shortly. My oldest son, Kurt, is really the family genealogist and I began doing research this year only to help him gather information. But, now I'm hooked. I am pleased to join the Anthon family and walk in the footsteps of my beloved grandparents, Harry and Madge Pearce. They were wonderful and talented people.

Both Overstreet and Pearce families left Anthon together around 1909. Lillian Morgan, who married Charlie Overstreet, my grandmother's brother, moved to the Hot Springs area a year or so later, after the birth of their first child in Anthon.

THANK YOU SO MUCH MARY FOR SHARING YOUR GRANDMOTHER'S DIARY and "The best day you had with your Grandmother" with our web page family.


Fritz Burow Shares:"Although I was disappointed to learn of the D & K Implement fire, I did appreciate your ability to post such powerful images on your website.
As a young paper carrier, I used to wait on the coldest days of winter for the Journal to bring my newspapers, sitting in the cab of one of the trucks that was always parked (unlocked, of course…this is Anthon) in front of the now-destroyed implement business.
It was a far different time, but still brings back wonderful memories of the community I proudly call my home town."
Fritz Burow ~ Feb 21, 2006.

Thanks Fritz for sharing such a warm childhood memory with our web page family. I'm sure there are many folks who remember "the paper boy" too.


Ron Thompson shares with us old photos from his HUFFMAN, JERMAN, SADLER families on the PHOTO'S PAGE of this website - #'s 68-73. He also sent some old obituaries of his family members and part of an ad page from a 1912 ANTHON HERALD Newspaper with some shoes on sale. The old OBITUARIES can be found on the GENEALOGY PAGE of this website. Also on the Genealogy page can be found a bit of information about his family.

One of Ron's memories is as follows:


"I remember being in parade's in Anthon as a child. I think they were called old settler days because Grandpa George Jerman would grow a beard and Grandma Cecile Jerman would put on the long dresses with matching bonnets. Grandpa was one of the last farmers in the area to raise and train teams for pulling wagons and we used to ride in back during the parade and Grandma would walk behind with other ladies. Then there was a carnival afterwords. Grandpa Jerman not only farmed but had the Jerman Trucking Company. He hauled livestock and grain for other farmers. I made many trips to the stockyards in Sioux City with him. All his trucks were red with a white diamond that had a red clover in the middle."

Ron continues: "I'm fifty now and my short term memory is shot yet I can pull up all of this?????"
THANKS RON FOR ALL YOU HAVE SHARED WITH OUR WEB SITE FAMILY! I don't think that you are alone in your "shot, short term memory" ...there are quite a few of us in that age bracket I'm sure, with the same problem. Maybe it is our way of wanting to relive our childhood memories and attempting to put the brakes on how fast the years really do go by. The photos, the stories and the genealogy are so appreciated and enjoyed! Looking forward to any more that you would care to share!

Roy Pitkin Jr. has shared the Pitkin Genealogy here as the PITKIN FAMILY GENEALOGY with our web page readers, but because of the length and my time constraints I have left his manuscript 'as is' and placed a link here to be loaded into Adobe Acrobat for our readers to read. It is quite interesting and we are lucky that he has shared it with us. Thank you Roy!
Adobe Acrobac Reader is necessary to read the Pitkin Genealogy .pdf file. You can download Adobe FREE at ADOBE.COM if you don't already have it on your computer.


Marjorie Fey Farris has some memories and she writes:
I would like to reply to the extensive genealogy of the Jerman family. I grew up with Lorna Gay and her two brothers Duane and ? (can’t remember his name) and Georgeann. We lived about 2-3 miles east of the Jerman family, and always rode the school bus together. I especially remember Lorna Gay’s kindness to me. I had polio as a small baby and walking and stairs were difficult at the Anthon school, but Lorna Gay was often there with an extended hand to help.
I also remember Art Huffman who died of a heart attack at his oil station. Among the pall bearers was my uncle Cecil Adler. Uncle Cecil had married my mom’s sister, Betty Ashley. Uncle Cecil died in a plane accident in Indiana along with my cousin, Eleanor Ashley. Aunt Betty died on December 30th, 2004.
Thanks. Marjorie Fey Farris


I enjoyed reading Roy Pitkin Jr. information. I have fond memories of Pitkin's Drug Store. "Doc" Pitkin allowed us to read the comic books if we treated them with care. So, I got to enjoy a lot of comic books I couldn't afford to buy. My father thought that we were taking advantage of "Doc" Pitkin's good nature; but, he assured my father that it was alright. I realize now that I lived in a special world. My grandmother and many other relatives lived in Anthon and we went to Anthon every Saturday. We shopped at Mike's Market (Mike was my Dad's cousin) , we went to the movies for a dime. I also always enjoyed going to the sale barn with my Dad, where he bought me my first pony. I graduated from Climbing Hill High School; but, Anthon has always been my home town.
Paul "Dick" Dicks


MARY HAUNREITER is again sharing with our web page family a very interesting CIVIL WAR LETTER written by Levi Pearce (who was at one time a resident of Peiro) to three Wendel brothers, Otto, Henry and George. One of George's descendants has the original letter and shared it with cousins of Mary, who is sharing it with us now.
Mary also added a little information about the Wendel family at the end of the letter. The Wendel family information can also be found on the Genealogy page of the web site. Thanks Mary for sharing!
Adobe Acrobac Reader is necessary to read the Civil War Letter.pdf file. You can download Adobe FREE at ADOBE.COM if you don't already have it on your computer.


DARLENE (RIPPLE) KENISON sent this "little rememberance of Pitkin Drug Store" that is a keeper! Thanks so much for sharing Darlene!
I was born in Anthon in 1932 to Faye & Ronald Ripple. We left there about 1937 but my history with the infamous drug store was in 1936.

It was a hot July day & I was bored. I remember asking mom to take me to the drug store for an ice cream cone. She refused so I set off by myself (we lived near the Catholic church) to get one. As I walked I decided I was going to be in a lot of trouble for going down town so I better get two ice cream cones so mom wouldn't be so angry.
I got to the store & Mr. Pitkin's waited on me. I ordered two double dip ice cream cones, one chocolate & one strawberry. He handed them to me & told me how much it would be. I knew I didn't have any money so I looked at him & said "charge it." My folks never charged anything but he just laughed & sent me on my way.
I had gone but a few blocks & ice cream was running down my arms & all over the front of my dress. I started crying & arrived at the corner of our block & I could see mom waiting for me with a switch. (They lost a bush that year due to breaking off switches.) I think Mr. Pitkins had called her with the news of my "charge" adventure.
I never repeated that trip & I never forgot those ice cream cones!
I loved Anthon as did my uncle, Clarence Harmon, & my cousin Ray Murray.
My husband & I stop there every year when we go back for class reunions at Arnolds Park, Ia.
My love to all the people there.
Sincerely,
Darlene (Ripple) Kenison


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